Friday, May 25, 2018

The Naked Man

Sorry this is so late. I had a doctor's appointment this morning, and then regular life got in the way.

I wanted to make another observation to yesterday's post:
When kids grow up, what they often remember is whether Mom and Dad were there for them when they needed support. I think what your son will remember from the episode is that his father was there, and didn't hide or lie to him.

Guys are often expected to make the journey to "manhood" alone, left to stumble through until we get it right. Just read about the issues we face right now as a gender with the raging accusations of harassment - everything from rape to inappropriate language (sexual innuendo).
Fathers, brothers, uncles, cousins, best friends need to step up to the plate and help and support one another; teach each other how to live in this new world.

We can start by opening up, by being honest, by shedding inhibitions about who we are. Though nudity is frowned upon by many, it might be well to remember that the naked man has nothing to hide. 
By that I mean it is easier to talk openly once you've been together naked. Go get naked together; fathers, brothers, sons, uncles, cousins, friends.
Continue the celebration...
...and enjoy the weekend. 

Thursday, May 24, 2018

Too Late to Hide

"My son came out to my workshop the other day and found me in my chair with my pants around my ankles stroking my dick. When I noticed him standing there his dick pushing a tent in his pants. He had this look of fascination on his face and asked what I was doing. Well, it was too late to hide anything so I left my pants on the floor and pulled down a folding chair for him and told him to remove his pants and have a seat that it was time for him to learn about his dick. Long story short I showed him how to jerk off. It's my habit to stand when I cum so the only clean up is the floor. He followed suit but his knees gave out when he came. I caught him before he hit the floor and got hurt and I ended up with his jizz all over me. I laughed it off but do you think that would have any effect on him? I mean that his hard-on pressed against me while he was shooting?"

There may be some who think the entire episode will have a detrimental effect on him. But, as anyone who has read this blog over the years on a regular basis knows I'm not of that mindset. I think fathers should be doing more to teach their sons about their cocks and masturbation.

That you didn't panic when he saw you, that you didn't try to pretend you weren't jacking off, that you took the opportunity to make it a teaching moment is commendable. That this occurred during Masturbation Month is even better - especially if you took the time to explain why we have this yearly celebration.
To be honest, I wouldn't worry about it. I seriously doubt he is even going to remember that particular instant. Do you remember the exact moment the first time you ejaculated, except the sensation of semen pulsing through your cock?

Readers, what do you think?

Wednesday, May 23, 2018

A More Satisfying Experience

There are a lot of places across the web where a guy can find instruction on masturbation, plenty of videos, photos, and gifs to download.

But, nothing beats hands-on experience - pun intended.
However, don't discount face-to-face learning. you can get more by getting together with a buddy or two where you can learn from one another. Stop worrying about labels others may try to pin on you. Those are bogus and a reflection on their lack of knowledge.

Learning to enjoy the gifts nature has given will bring a greater appreciation of what you can experience.

And teach you new ways to extend the pleasure and more fully enjoy yourself
for a more satisfying experience

Tuesday, May 22, 2018

The Finish

Masturbation comes to us fairly naturally. Puberty strikes and we begin to discover the pleasure of touching, playing, and stroking. At some point along that path, we find the arousal increasing and experience our first waking ejaculation.
I say "waking" because wet a dream - cumming during sleep - may have already hit.
Either one may take us by surprise. It all depends on whether and what we've been taught (told) ahead of time. Some guys experience guilt and fear. They hide it from everyone, furtively stroking away to complete the task as rapidly as possible.

Even when after they've matured and have plenty of privacy and freedom, the tendency is to make that hand move up and down the shaft as fast as possible. These are the ones who could use instruction, a bit of coaching.

Slow down. Take your time. Never stroke faster than you can thrust your hips.

The journey should be pleasurable.

The finish extraordinary.