Friday, December 19, 2014

Watching and Doing

(A Scheduled Post)
I won't be able to make the rounds to my Blogger Buddies. My wife is taking the day off and we're going to go out for breakfast (something we rarely do), go see The Hobbit, The Battle of the Five Armies, and then do some Christmas Shopping.
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Continuing on with our subject of learning about a man's package... Who will tell a young man that another excellent tool for learning how to enjoy himself is by watching other guys? That it doesn't mean he is, or make him, gay? This is just one of the benefits of having a Bate Buddy, Jack-Off Bud, Bator Bro, or whatever other moniker you'd care to assign. For many men, it can be the proof in the pudding he's no different than any other guy.
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We learn by watching others.
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We learn by doing.
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Having a buddy sitting next to you stroking away, showing you what he does and enjoys, how he makes it last, is a great teaching tool.
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Having him reach over and play with your package can also help you develop stamina in the sack; it prepares you for having someone else's touch to your cock and balls. It can help you learn to communicate to a partner what feels good.
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Reaching over and stroking another dudes dick can also be a learning tool in the same way. Learning to accept verbal and physical guidance helps you become a better sexual partner.
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Have a wonderful weekend, folks. Take some time and do some "practicing."
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Thursday, December 18, 2014

The Art

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Who will tell a young man he does not have to blast off like a Minute Man Missile? That the prostate - now known to be the Male G-Spot - is key? That he can control the timing? And that one of the best learning tools is jacking off?
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That a masturbation sleeve, such as the FleshJack, is an excellent tool to use for practice?
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Though blasting cum is the ultimate goal, getting there should be pleasurable. When we're with a partner, the idea is to make it last and enjoy it for as long as we can. That should be the case when we jack off, too.
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Oh, sure, there are instances when a quickie is called for (calming those nerves before a big interview or meeting, or when time is short - the proverbial Lunch-time Quickie).
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But, 99% of the time, we should be taking our time to enjoy the act, and the art,
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of masturbation.

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

More Cock Education

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Lordy! I completely forgot I have a dental appointment this morning. Sorry, folks. I shall update the post when I get back. Whew...well that's done for another 3 months.
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So, in following up... If we, as parents or role models, do not speak up and educate our sons, who will? Any type of sex ed in school - no matter how thorough - cannot cover the kinds of things they need to know. For instance, as young men they should know that pre-cum is normal and that it can contain live, motile sperm.
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That a guy doesn't need a boner to leak pre-cum.
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That when they have an orgasm they should be shooting a load.
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I have a friend who tried unsuccessfully for several years (in his early 20's) to father a child. His wife finally convinced him they needed to seek help. When the doctor handed him a vial for the semen sample, my buddy didn't understand. He said this doctor looked at him dumbfounded, "Do you produce semen when you cum?"
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Well, as it turned out, my buddy had all the sensations of an orgasm, but had no clue that he should actually be shooting cum because he never had. Diagnosis: Retrograde Ejaculation. When he came, every spurt of jizz was sent into his bladder.
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Who is going to explain to a young guy that cumming can actually hurt - hurt like a motherfucker. A man's balls pull up when he cums. But it is not the scrunch of the ballsac that does it. The scrotum pulls our balls close for protection from the cold and from imminent danger. It's the Cremaster Muscles, which surround the testicles, that yank our nuts upward and squeeze them to move the sperm into the Seminal Vesicles. And, sometimes, those muscles can clamp down - hard.
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Is a sex ed teacher going tell young men that the head of their cocks can sometimes get extremely - and I do mean extremely - sensitive when they cum? But that it's normal. I think not.
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And young men should not have to figure these things out on their own; their fathers should be teaching them this stuff.
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Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Missing A Ball?

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And speaking of nuts, Dr Oz answered a question in his column about them. The writer questioned the decision by a pediatrician that (I think it was) the man's 8-month-old grandson undergo surgery to remove an undescended testicle. The man thought it should be left alone.
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A buddy of mine joined the military at age 18. During the entrance physical the old "turn your head and cough" routine discovered he only had one nut in his sac. When he admitted the other had never dropped, they insisted he have it removed before he could enter basic training. During his career, it was widely known and any time you heard "Sgt. One-nut" or any derivative thereof, you knew exactly who the person was referring to.
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According to Dr Oz, our balls drop down from the abdomen into the scrotum typically during the final weeks of gestation. If they are not in the ballsac at birth, then it is wise to keep watch. If they haven't moved into the proper position within 6 months, they should be brought down surgically as soon as possible. Allowing a ball to reside in the abdominal cavity can lead to all sorts of problems - fertility issues are just the beginning. The risk of ball cancer rises. If that goes untreated, well, the consequences are not pretty. 
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Just one more reason we need to be open and honest with our sons about their bodies. Their balls are as important as our own; their cocks are as important as our own.
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 As parents - as fathers - we should know if our sons are getting the boners they should,
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if they're able to jack off and shoot a load without a problem,
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if they're having any issues at all with the package.