Are You Up For It?

Thank you all so much for your kind words. He was a long-haired Tuxedo - the only white on him was his chest and paws. He showed up in the back yard when he was about 5 weeks old. Our previous one looked like this

He'd go everywhere with me, draped across my shoulders; into stores and everything. There was no need to hold his feet though.

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Tomorrow begins the month-long celebration of self.

Are you up for it?

Dreary Day

It's cloudy, windy, and dreary. 

Small chance of rain.

It's a perfect day to curl up with a good book.

 Then, we discovered out 14-year old cat - who was feral and adopted us when he was a wee thing - died early this morning. That's enough to take the wind out of your sails, for sure.

Not Up To It

Not up to it today.

Wishing I could hit the beach.

Have an enjoyable weekend.

Is Male Masturbation Gross?

A reader remarked in the comments the other day about the plethora of articles on men's sexuality and sex which are written by women. I think men are too afraid to write about these things.

Men are too shy to talk about these things - other than, maybe, making jokes.

Men are too ashamed to admit to and write about sexual issues.

I've been saying for the last 9+ years that men are much better at hand jobs than women.

It's why I recommend mutual masturbation - particularly straight couples.

Here's a woman who gets it. In her short article for Medium, Male Masturbation Isn't Gross, Tracybyfire goes whole hog on the double-standard of men v women when it comes to solo sex. 

"When it comes to handling a penis, I’m just not adept.

Maybe it’s a lack of practice. Maybe I’m just uncoordinated. I never learned to swim, and I can’t ride a bicycle. Some people just aren’t cut out for certain tasks.

That’s why you’ll never hear me complain about a man who takes matters into his own hands. Do you masturbate? Fantastic. I’d be more than happy to hear about it. I can watch. I can cheer you on. I can even be of some assistance, with the proper motivation and detailed step-by-step instructions — but I will never call it gross."

This 3-5 minute read is worth the time. Especially for you straight dudes who read this blog.