Friday, February 15, 2019

Play Up

Yep, it's that time again.
So get busy, boys. 

Everyone should jump on this Bandwagon! We all need to play up the importance.

See? It can be fun! Especially if you get a buddy to help.

You have the whole weekend to accomplish the assignment.

Thursday, February 14, 2019

Take Your Arrow

It's Saint Valentine's Day. A day created by the card industry to assist slumping after-holiday sales. I hope you all have a wonderful day. If you don't have someone to celebrate with, 

there is absolutely no reason you can't celebrate yourself!
Take your arrow
aim, and shoot.

Happy Valentine's Day to all my Faithful Readers
It's cloudy. It's cold. It's raining. A perfect day to read. I'm an avid reader. This year I've already read six novels (two of them are close to 700 pages). I read across many genres - paranormal (ghosts, vampires, shifters), mystery, horror, general fiction, and, yes, even erotica. 

I'll pretty much read anything as long as it's well written, and my shelves are packed.
What do you like to read?

Wednesday, February 13, 2019

End Game

"Oh, boy, do I hope you can help me. My husband has a foreskin and has a problem with retracting it. He doesn't seem to think it's a problem. He says it doesn't hurt, he can pee without skinning it back, and he sure can cum. But I have to tell you when he wants me to suck him the smell is getting pretty rank. Its to a point that all he needs to do is take off his pants and I can smell it. That turns me right off and I admit I avoid sex as much as possible. I've tried to tell him to stick a finger between the head and skin when he showers, but he says he can't do that anymore because its too tight. I can promise you if my vagina smelled like that he'd avoid me too."

He's headed toward severe Phimosis - the Phimotic Ring - the "elastic band" within the foreskin - is tightening up. There's a cure for that. A quick trip to the doctor for a steroid cream is all that's needed to loosen the band. 

It may take some time, but it would be better than circumcision.
If the cream doesn't work, then there is what is known as a "partial circumcision" wherein only the Phimotic Ring itself is removed. This option leaves the foreskin loose, requiring manual manipulation to retract, and to replace over the glans.

However, the immediate issue is that he's not cleaning himself. It's not only gross, he's not doing himself any favors. In the long run what is collecting under there (called Smegma) will eventually begin to have an negative affect on the head of his cock. Tell him to stand in the shower, and use a couple drops of shampoo (or shower gel) and try getting a q-tip in there. He must make sure he rinses thoroughly, though. He doesn't want to leave soap under there any more than he wants the Smegma.

But, the end game...he needs to go see his doctor.
The sooner the better. He'll be glad he did.

Tuesday, February 12, 2019

A Brother-Husband

The situation has been covered before, but this appears to have a new twist.

"I live in a house as a Brother-Husband. There's four of us now and it's all fine. Everyone contributes to the finances and stuff. We all sleep in a sultan size bed and there's sex damn near every night. Who could complain about that? The problem arose when I couldn't sleep. I didn't want to disturb everyone and I went out to the livingroom. I had a nice long and slow session of masturbation. One of the guys found me asleep on the couch in the morning covered in dried jizz. The pouting started and hasn't let up. I don't get what the problem is. Everyone reads your blog. Maybe they'd listen to you."

Well, alrighty, then. Yes, we've covered this issue before when guys have written in about wives/girlfriends getting jealous over the jacking off. I do have to admit I'm surprised that guys would be upset over this. But, we're all human and our feelings get hurt.
Listen guys: Masturbation is a wonderful sleep aid. Sometimes we just want to get our rocks off without worrying about satisfying anyone else. Both those situations are quite normal. Now you're making him feel guilty and shaming him for that.
Sure, he could've remained in bed and gone at it, and risked waking the rest of you. Instead, he went elsewhere to achieve what you all had: Sleep. He thought he was being considerate. I think you need to cut your Brother-Husband a break here.


Monday, February 11, 2019

The Route to Take

So many thoughtful responses to Friday's post. The writer has a lot of options to consider. The best might be to have a talk with this guy he's hooked up with and remain friends without the benefits until such time as he's ready to freely enter into a relationship (if that's what he wants).

In the meantime, the need to relieve aching nuts can't (or shouldn't) be ignored, either. Return to taking matters to hand (your own).

If the sensations of penetrative, thrusting are what you miss
as suggested by a couple of Readers, a FleshLight might be the route to take.