Last week I had a question from one of the Faithful Readers who always posts anonymously. He questions why he has always done hands-free ejaculation, and he can't seem to continue stroking.
Yet, the flip side of the coin is lot's of men would love to be able to cum hands-free and can't.
The body's natural instinct is to thrust as deeply as possible with each contraction to get the semen as deep into the vagina as possible. The closer to the egg, the easier the trip. So, the natural inclination when masturbating is to stroke fully along the shaft with each spurt. And the hips usually have a tendency to thrust forward as well.
However, there are some men who thrust deep at the point of cumming and remain there until the orgasm is finished. These are men who - my guess is - stop stroking when they shoot. And one reason may be - I'm guessing, here - is due to an overly-sensitive glans.
The head of the cock gets more and more sensitive as the activity increases and is at it's most sensitive when we hit the point of no return and cum. Some men have serious issues with this - it can actually hurt when they cum.
Any touch, any movement, any sensation at all hurts. As a result, they cease their stroking altogether. Desensitizing cream can help with that. But using too much can have a detrimental effect and have the ejaculation delayed and delayed and delayed until you're desperate to cum.
I'd suggest practicing mindful masturbation. Be aware of your cock and the stimulation at all times. In that way, you may be able to continue stroking as you cum.
You may also want to consider a Masturbation Coach.
Yep. You read that right.
A Masturbation Coach.
(more tomorrow)
9 comments:
Excellent post! Excellent GIFs! And a teaser to boot!
Is it ok if I tell you this post turned me on a little?
It did.
XoXo
You're right about a lot of men having a very sensitive tip, especially after ejaculation. It can be seen in amateur videos online as well.
What I would suggest to people who really want to do it hands-free is... Find what or who truly excites you. Then, you'll get there 100% in no time. Literally, everything's in your head.
This week is flying by and I have accomplished nothing. I had to put the 3 lb bag of smoked almonds (Costco) in the trunk of my car. Hugs and bisous.
I have cum maybe three times without being hardly touched. But I have to be REALLY turned on to do it.
Excellent advice, Coach P - I cumpletely agree. I do think it is difficult to remain hands on with an overly sensitive glan. Nothing wrong about it. It has it's benefits, too. I'd love to cum hands free. I've seen guys do nipple stimulation to orgasm. I'd love to be able to do that. Stay safe and have a jizztastic day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
@ Sixpence - Ok, I'll try harder! LOL.
@ Jean - Yep. The diet was going well until the lockdown...now the pounds are reappearing. We'll have to start all over again when this is over. Hugs and bisous!!!
I think you may be answering my inquiry. I really appreciate the post and insight. To be more clear, I'm not able to just have hands free ejaculation. Never known how to achieve that at all. When I masturbate, and ejaculate my hand stays put but stops the strokes. I guess the glans does feel pretty sensitive, but never realized it was a thing that I was stopping or pausing for. I guess just differences among men, and maybe one of those things I'll have to try to have fun with and be more mindful of if I try something different.
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