The whole shebang (internet, phone, tv) came back online approximately 30-minutes before a scheduled Zoom meeting was to begin. I was all ready to get out my cell phone to text the organizer that I wouldn't be in attendance...
"Hey man, I just want to say I enjoy your blog. As a 54-year-old man it is good to see and read about other men like me who like to be naked. And hard. It is natural. As a lifelong nudist and not afraid to be so I know I am not alone in my feelings. As I am typing this, I am sporting an erection. It is only 7-thick inches, but it is mine and full and robust despite my age. I still am ready to do all I can to stay the man I was in my 20s and 30s and I manage quite well. It may take longer, and the hard-on may not last as long, but I am checking into how to make the hard-on more sustainable. Perhaps you can do some discussions on cock-rings. If you haven't already, I am still making my way through your blog."
As we age, it's not always prostate issues or blood-flow that makes us lose hardness. Lowering hormone levels certainly contribute to boners that don't stand up to our fondest memories of youth. Sad, but true.
Long before men reported a (welcome) side effect of harder erections with a new heart medication being studied, the doctors' answer to flagging boners was a trip to the pharmacy for Behind-the-Counter pumps and cock rings.
The downside to those, of course, is keeping them on too long. Blood gets restricted to the point it cannot provide a fresh supply and the inner tissue can actually die. Many a man ended up in the Emergency Room to have the cock ring cut off and the sludge-like blood drained.
The answer to that was - and still is - don't wear the cock ring more than 30-minutes at a time. Or, find an adjustable one.
There are so many types out on the market now. They're easy to find and easy to get and some guys like to wear them like jewelry.
For your particular case, I'd suggest buying an adjustable one. Or one that would be tight enough to enhance the hardness, but stretchable and easy to remove.
That way, you can allow the blood exchange to take place, put it back on and resume your activity.
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I love the stretchies! However, it's best to keep the pubes trimmed short or those are painful to get off.
"It is only 7-thick inches, but it is mine and full and robust despite my age. " Well, hello daddy.
And as for cockrings, I think the best ones are the adjustable, leather ones. Your dick will stay hard when needed and you can just snap it off when you're about to come. Win/win.
XOXO
The simplest solutions (like yours) are often the best.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
I don't like rings on dicks!!!
My Doctor prescribed a pump with a elastic cock ring on the end that you slide off the end of the pump onto the erect member. Was told not to keep it on longer than 30 min. Am pleased with how it works, but it does put a little kink in the passion when you have to stop and put it in place. I get my partner to help and it becomes part of the foreplay.Was happy my insurance covered the cost. Please follow the doctor"s instructions. Have a friend who didn't follow the doctors instruction with the shots in the penis and he is still having problems.
@ Rick - Yep, another good reason for manscaping.
@ Six - True. Snap off to allow blood exchange, snap back in place, snap off to cum. XOXO
@ xersex - Any particular reason?
@ Hooter - Damn.... I hope your friend has realized that the doctors give instructions for good reason.
As I've gotten older, in my sessions with a book in one hand and the other... otherwise occupied, I tend to get distracted if the literature isn't as enticing as I thought it was. My mind wanders. "Dear, the ceiling needs to be painted..." kind of things.
And as my mind wanders, so does my erection. *sigh*
--PaulMmn
I could watch that last guy put that cock ring on over and over watching his cock flick around....
They are fun. Just be very careful. Glad your net is back up and running. Have a lovely...
If they can only be kept on 30 minutes safely, you sure see a lot of pictures of guys standing around, like at socials, with these on.
Just makes you wonder what doctors see in the emergency room every day.
Hugs and bisous.
Great advice as always. I am a fan of adjustable rings too. I wear them for a different feeling rather than for a physical reason. But when I get to be in my 50s and beyond and things change, I will have a drawer full! LOL!
My cock rings are mostly 2" inside diameter, slightly larger than 5.75/3.14 = 1.83" average thickness - .but it is about 2" wide and 1 5/8" thick at base, and veins are on the thinner side, so the fit isn't too tight, allowing some blood flow. Favorite cock rings are repurposed retainer urethane rings 3.16" wide from Reality Female condoms, which have some flex in shape, but not size. Also have 2' x 1/2" wide aluminum rings. Both types work about same. My cock will get really hard and veiny at first when I'm bating, then then gets softer to allow some blood flow. If I just leave it on after bating (to enhance cock awareness) cock will continue to shrink and eventually ring will fall off. Don't how many I've lost walking down the street! I'd estimate I wear a ring maybe 10% of the time I'm bating, usually for 3rd or 4th bate set of the day or when I'm walking and bating outdoors - when I'm less horny or more distracted. I wore them all the time when my testostrone levels were starting to recovering last year.
So, bottom line advice is that "fit" is really important - find just the right size to restrict but not shut off blood flow. I'd be wary of adjustable rings because it would be easy to make them too tight.
I'll frequently wear rings at the Gay Naturist gathering to show off, and I'm not alone in that!
Final note: I've been using daily Cialis for about 25 years now, as an antidote to boner killing effect of blood pressure meds. Blood pressure taken in sitting position is right on target, but probably drops some when I am lying down. Haven't been able to sustain a hardon for bating when I'm laying down in many years! Standing position raises pressure and is one trick to getting bigger hardons!
@ PaulMmn - Proof that the brain is the biggest sex organ we have.
@ Jean - Now you have me curious to find out just how common it is in emergency rooms. Hugs and bisous.
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