"I took my son to the gym with me over the weekend for two reasons: To get him to establish regular exercise, and to make him understand he doesn't need to be ashamed of his dick like I've heard so many are now. The gang showers he got quite the education. What's the deal with guys getting chubs and hard-ons in the showers?"
First, let me congratulate you on making sure he gets exercise. Too many do nothing but play on their electronics. Second, Bravo! for helping him be comfortable in his own skin. It's what we are born with and we shouldn't be ashamed.
Now, on to the chubs and boners. I'm sure you've been in the gym showers before. Apparently, you didn't pay much attention. Not that I would expect you to. But seeing a man's cock start to get hard when he's washing it shouldn't be that difficult to understand. Soapy, slick hands sliding over and around can cause unintended arousal. It's a physiological response.
If you've given him the proper information and education, he'll know it's normal and something he should shrug off and take in stride.
Whether it's his, yours, or someone else's.
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"and to make him understand he doesn't need to be ashamed of his dick like I've heard so many are now."
If anything, dudes are TOO FUCKING MUCH into their dicks. Not other dude's, though. Unless they LIKE dick.
You mention that men do not look at each other in the gym showers. True. I have never really looked when I'm in a gym shower. I do go in and out quickly because I'm not there to get fucked: I go there to take a quick shower. And I like dick. Not gawking is called being polite and respecting boundaries.
Dudes who cruise in mixed company are RUDE. If you are in a gay sauna? Gawk away. If you are in a gay gym, please feel free to look. If there's no sign that your staring is welcome, do NOT do it. Don't be a dick.
XOXO
Now no disrespect to the reader who commented, but it amazes me how many people still question guys getting chubs and hardons on beaches and gym showers and just wearing tight pants. Do they not know men don't always have controls over getting erections?
Pat, you said it all and I have nothing to add or change. I can only approve.
Bravo for the photos.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Happy Tuesday.
Postscriptum: For my part, I did my sex education in self-service
Always good advice.
Bravo, super. Moi, je regrette bien de ne pas avoir pris de douche en toute simplicité et nudité lorsque j'étais enfant ou adolescent. J'ai dû m'habituer beaucoup plus tard à la nudité, mais maintenant çà ne me pose aucun problème, au contraire
Once again, I am so grateful that my Dad chased the notion of cock shame out of me. I only got hard at the Y two or three times, and nobody gave a shit. And I only saw two or three guys get hard, and again, nobody cared. Around the house, though, morning wood, hard ons in the showers, and even jacking a load were acceptable. It was acknowledged sometimes, usually razzing, but mostly went unremarked upon.
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@ MFP - Per your postscriptum: as many have had to do. Hugs and bisous.
@ Maddie - I agree.... Seems like if you have one, should know how they behave - or misbehave.
@ Six - You have got to be referencing all the dick pic selfies. Yeah, if would appear they are into their dicks --- until someone tells the they have to get naked in front of others IRL.
I'd like to take several of those pictured 'in stride'... sigh.
It seems that the fewer clothes people wear, the more trouble they have with nudity. Hugs and bisous.
Have you experienced people watching your hard cock at the gym showers? One guy was rude to me said put it that away! I stared at him and he walked away
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Good advice to take it all in your stride and not be ashamed of quite natural biological operation for whatever reason.
However, not all men are going to avoid looking and I think all lads need to know that men who are sexually attracted to other men do exist and may express interest in your body, so take it as a compliment and good naturedly decline any offers to get closer if you aren't interested (such as "I'm good, thanks."). It's your body, so be confident about what you want to use it for, not what someone else may want.
good dad! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
My friend is starting to do this with his eldest kid (they both starting to go gym). Lasted a week, calls me up asking if we still have any old gym equipment they can use. The wife didnt like it (yes it is that wife again..). The youngest has just hit puberty too so he is double screwed with the both of them.
We all keep telling him get a divorce. Dont wait until your kids are 18 to do it (that is what they are doing).
The other stuff the quick and easy way to put it is when we do gym our bodies produce testosterone which our muscles need for function and recovery. Our dicks also need testosterone to get an erection; without it that thing will not go up at all. Some will fluff up a bit, others may get a full one and others may not get anything at all.
Its much easier for a guy to get a hardon after gym. The body is producing everything it needs to get that hardon happening.
This is how you raise real men! My dad never pee around me in public toilets. All shame man he was
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