"We're trying to get pregnant and finally went to get evaluated. She's fine. Evidently, it's my issue. See I cum but not much. I only get a small globule of semen and it doesn't shoot out at all. And it happens only on the first pulse of my cock even thought the orgasm lasts. The fertility doctor says the ejaculatory sphincter is not functioning properly and I'm experiencing a retrograde ejaculation all but the first little bit ends up in my bladder. He says it can't be fixed and we'll have to go In Vitro but he'll have to extract sperm with a needle. Kind of like doing needle biopsy. The thought of a needle in my balls scares the hell out of me."
Whoa, whoa, whoa. First, it would be a needle into your seminal vesicles, not the testicles.. Second, didn't he at least recommend that you try altering your coitus position when you ejaculate?
If that doesn't work then, yeah, your only option will be sperm extraction. As painful as that sounds, they should give you some type of anesthesia for the procedure. If a doctor didn't and came at my nether with a biopsy needle, I'd kick him in the balls and run.
You need to discuss this with your wife. Hopefully, she'll be willing to try this method. Not only because of the discomfort on your part but because In Vitro can be very expensive.














