Friday, May 18, 2018

Healthy Sex Life

Some wonderful answers for the subject of Wednesday's post. I think everyone felt sympathy for the man. He thought he was doing something nice with doing the jack off video and giving her a new vibrator and the response wasn't kind. But, I think a few hit the nail on the head for him:

Women are wired differently. His efforts may have ruined the wife's fantasies. Women are no different than men when it comes to looking at erotic images - the fantasy of being with the person in the picture, etc, etc. Or their spouse/partner looking that way. And the husband may have kind of ruined that for her. Well, as Faithful Reader Jean said - he gets an A+ for effort.
Or, perhaps, she was embarrassed that he is aware of what she looks at on her computer/tablet and uses a vibrator to masturbate.

If that's the case, as others pointed out, communicating that he's okay with it might be a really good step in the right direction. Because, as the opening meme states: Masturbation is an integral part of a healthy sex life.

 Have a happy weekend.

Thursday, May 17, 2018

Behind Schedule

Overslept. Then the computer decided to have a bit of an update fit.
Put me way behind schedule. Therefore, I can only encourage you to continue to celebrate the month.


See you tomorrow.

Wednesday, May 16, 2018

He's Looking For a Response

"Here's one for you and your readers. After almost 9 years and two kids it seems my wife isn't very interested in sex any more. I wanted spicwe things up and give her a Mothers day gift she wouldn't forget. Over a few weeks I put on my sexiest jeans and started making a film. I took my time,, got a good bulge and teased as I undressed. The actual jerking off was slow and as sensuous as I could make it. I thought it turned out pretty good. it was wierd editing the peices together but it was really hot filming myself - it gave me a huge boner and the cum shots were over the top. I bought her a brand new vibrator, wrapped it up and put in the drawer next to her old one which didn't work anymore I know i tried it. On Mothers Day, I put a bow on the drawer, plugged in the flash drive to the tv in the bedroom, cued it up and taped a note on the screen that said play me. Then I took the kids out for the afternnon and told her to have a really nice day. I thought she'd like it because she doesn't delete her history so I  know she watches those Legend Men solos all the time. and subscribes to Playgirl online.
It turned out to be a huge kick in the nuts. I know i'm not Chris Hemasworth but I'm in decent shape and even if I do say so myself I have a pretty nice dick. I got home and she said it was the most ridiculous thing she'd ever seen. How do I respond to that? I mean WTF?"

One of the worst things a woman can do to a naked man is point at this cock and laugh. And that is essentially what she's done. It's enough to "knock your dick in the dirt" as the saying goes. If you're angry, I can't say I blame you. But anger won't solve anything.
Even if one doesn't particularly enjoy a gift it is proper to be gracious. Ridiculing you for the effort was not gracious. A kinder response would've been to say, "Thank you, honey. It was lovely, but lets not do that again, okay? What if the kids got hold of it?"

I wish I had an answer for you.
Readers: Can you offer any suggestions?

Tuesday, May 15, 2018

For the Ladies

First things first. You know what day it is, right?
Buddy Ball Check
Yes, even during Masturbation Month, we need to stop and do the ball check. It only takes a few minutes of your time and it is worth it. It is always worth your time to ensure your own health.
Because it's Masturbation Month, feel free to turn your check into the pleasure and enjoyment of what nature has given to you.
Second: Dear Abby reminded me yesterday that this is National Women's Health Week. The month-long celebration is for the Ladies, too. Since masturbation is good for overall health, I hope all of my Faithful Readers are participating. Ladies, this one's for you!

Have a good day, everyone. Thank you for being here, reading, and leaving comments or sending emails.
It is appreciated.