There are so many different things which interfere with our boners. We guys have a tendency to take our cocks for granted...until they don't function properly.
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In the comments to Friday's post: "I have found during the last few years (I'm 37) it takes more of an intimate connection to fully turn me on/get a full erection. I am wondering if this is just an emotional need or E.D. Actually I began to notice it more so when I began serious weight lifting about 2 years ago but I am having a difficult time finding any worthy info on the possible correlation between lifting weights/testosterone production/erection ability. I would love any input."
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At 37, I suspect the issue is not weight-training. Unless you are ingesting a lot of supplements to hasten the development of muscle. Those substances - if commingled, if taken in extreme quantities - can interfere with our ability to get an erection. Especially if any steroids are used. Steroids are well-known to be boner killers. They cause the testicles to shrink which, in turn, lowers Testosterone.
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If you're using steroids or supplements, quit. It will take longer to achieve the muscle mass you're looking for, but your body is quite capable of getting there without the use of synthetic chemicals.
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Typically, our issues with getting hard can be traced to mental issues. Which is why physicians look there first. Our arousal levels can lag when we get bored - and we do get bored. Men, much more than women, need variety. Not necessarily in partners, but engaging in sex in a different place can give a surge to our boners.
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Additionally, the older we get the more stimulation we need. It can take longer, requiring more direct (and new) physical contact, more and new visual stimulus, different and new fantasies.
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A yearly physical exam is very helpful. Make an appointment and get checked from head to toe.
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It could reveal an issue with blood pressure. As fullmoonma (howtobate) indicated, high blood pressure could be the direct culprit. But, whatever the cause, you deserve to have a fully functioning cock.
Any readers who have experience with weight lifting, please add to the conversation by leaving a comment.
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n response to the post on shaving, a reader asks: "If you shave the shaft, do you shave it with an erection or when it is flaccid?"
I shave the shaft when it's flaccid. An erection adds to the possibility of nicking oneself. And don't put pressure on the razor. Let the natural weight of the razor do the work. Added pressure can result in scraping the skin, leaving something similar to a rug burn.
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You guys who responded that you shave the shaft: How do you do it? Hard or soft?