Masturbation Month - May 27

 

Happy Friday.

As we head into the final weekend of Masturbation Month, just enjoy it.

Masturbation Month - May 26

 

"OK during this month I've enjoyed myself but it also noticed that my dick isn't as sensitive as it used to be. What can I do about that?"

Well, provided you haven't rubbed it raw..... Just kidding.

Seriously, just like any other part of your body, the skin of the cock can form callous. If you're circumcised, the glans skin (head of your cock) can become thicker, covering up all those luscious nerve endings.

After you shower, leave the skin slightly damp and apply a few drops of pure Vitamin E oil. I promise that the sensitivity will return. Just as it takes time to build the callous, it will take time for it to slough off. But it will.

Now, go get the Vitamin E oil, take a shower, put the oil on --- maybe a little extra just this once 

and enjoy yourself.

Masturbation Month- May 25

Re: Yesterday's mass murder of 19 elementary school children and 2 adults. Let's take a look at who they (re)elect.

That particular TX district's GOP Representative, "“I voted NO on two gun control measures in the House today,” Gonzales tweeted proudly in March 2021. “I am a proud supporter of the Second Amendment and will do everything I can to oppose gun grabs from the far Left.”" Then, there's Cancun Cruz declaring "... the democrats, are going to politicize this." These ass-wipes were reelected AFTER a total of 33 people had been killed in El Paso, Odessa, and White Settlement, TX mass shootings.

Here, we experienced the worst mass shooting in modern history; 59 dead, 358 wounded. We voted in a blue majority from local dog catcher to federal representatives. That's what needs to happen across the country in order to stop this.

Sorry for the rant...but I couldn't let it go unnoticed.

 

"The covid shit sure killed hook-ups. I spent the entire time doing nothing but sufring porn and jerking off. A true bitch for a straight guy. Early this year I tried a j/o group. I admit I was pretty timid at first but Holy Shit it felt good to have someone else stroke my dick. One dude there and I hit it off and he tells me he's straight but loves stroking with guys. Now that covid is on the rise again we decided to get together on our own for Masturbation Month. Not sure how it happened but it seems we both enjoy sucking dick too. But we both still want to hook up with women. Is there anything wrong with that or are we supposed to stick with playing with dicks now?"

First off, let me assure you that you were not alone during the pandemic. As cited in the article "I Feel a bit rusty: Has COVID killed our sex lives" from The Guardian, reports indicate that sexual relations declined even among married couples. 

Photo courtesy of The Guardian

It's my opinion, whether it was due to fear of transmission or depression, there was most likely a lot of masturbation taking place.

As to your question: Have you not been paying attention to the whole "poly" thing? There are no strict rules anymore. Not that there were any before. But before, the issue was that bisexual men were even more closeted than gay guys. Didn't help that many in the gay community used to say any man who had any kind of sexual activity with another man was really gay and just didn't want to admit it.

So keep meeting up with your straight buddy if you're both down with that. Jack off together. Suck each other's cocks. Rub your boners together. Fuck each other if that's what you want to do (just do it safely with condoms).

Keep in mind that when either of you feels safe going out again and hooks up with a woman, you knew it would happen sooner or later. In the meantime, enjoy the common activity.

Masturbation Month - May 24

 

As Jean said in her comment on the May 18th post, 

"Silence seems to be passed on through the generations. Nothing from my parents. Also there's a big difference between learning about reproduction and learning about "sex." Yes they go together but they are very separate subjects. If there was any discussion in school or by parents, it tends to be more about the reproduction side."

She's correct. The typical discussion never makes mention of erections, penetration, or ejaculation.

And it's extremely rare that masturbation is ever mentioned or even hinted at.

"Your post from the 18th is spot on. My twin and I walked in on our dad one day while he was jerking off. My brother asked what he was doing so he told us. He didn't stutter or anything he was just straightfroward about it all."

"Learned about it from kids at school, but got caught by my dad and he was very cool about it. I wasn't really doing it "right" (I wasn't wrapping my hand around it, more like holding it by my finger tips). Without being weird or creepy, he said "oh man, ok, well sorry for walking in! Uh, try it like this (hand gestures), it'll feel WAY better"."

"My father never said anything about it, but I did talk about masturbation with my sons at an appropriate age (nearly 40 years ago). I told them how to do it and encouraged them to regard it as normal. I thought it was doubly important to make my attitudes clear because I was their Vicar as well as their father."

It's such a normal, natural part of life, it makes no sense that anyone should have to be embarrassed to talk about it, or to admit to enjoying it.

Fathers shouldn't have to hide it from their sons.

Sons shouldn't have to hide it from their fathers.

And guys shouldn't afraid to admit to it with one another.