Who will tell a young man he does not have to blast off like a Minute Man Missile? That the prostate - now known to be the Male G-Spot - is key? That he can control the timing? And that one of the best learning tools is jacking off?
That a masturbation sleeve, such as the FleshJack, is an excellent tool to use for practice?
Though blasting cum is the ultimate goal, getting there should be pleasurable. When we're with a partner, the idea is to make it last and enjoy it for as long as we can. That should be the case when we jack off, too.
Oh, sure, there are instances when a quickie is called for (calming those nerves before a big interview or meeting, or when time is short - the proverbial Lunch-time Quickie).
But, 99% of the time, we should be taking our time to enjoy the act, and the art,