The libido is a more delicate thing than most realize. So many things can affect it. Anxiety is a huge factor. Without realizing it, the anxiety of the current situation in the country creeps into our brains. Even when we are not actively focused on it. It's enough to kill desire, to kill a boner, or even prevent us from getting one.
It may be impossible right now to clear your mind fully enough. And, that's okay. It's understandable. We are facing unbelievable crises right now, the country is in turmoil.
If you can't get a decent boner, it's understandable right now. Don't add anxiety of that to what is already rattling around in your head.
Have faith that, eventually, when things calm down, the boner will return.
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Darn you Pat...you would have to start this post with on on my favorite porn stars!!! That boy Um Um Ummmmmmmmmmmmmm.
I saw your comment at Bobs I too had several hateful comments yesterday. I made sure to mointer them and hit delete. Time to welcome all in this country once and for all!!!!! Equal rights, equal way to be treated!
Anxiety and depression are the pits, that's for sure.
I have been blocked when wanting to enter your blog, but by struggling for finding a solution I succeeded by replacing http by https
By cons, that doesn't work when I replace Trump by Trumps. And it's true that a single one is better than several.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Totally.
One thing, though. I've discovered that jerking off helps me fall asleep when I have insomnia. Better than Valium, I guess.
XOXO
P.S. Daddy in the black shirt? Yum.
Thanks for the continued encouragement and insight. Stay well and healthy.
I am finding that I'm surfing a LOT more porn than before, and thoroughly enjoy the spark of wood a nice photo, .gif or video clip bring on. Feels like it's been damn, fucking too long!
Porn, in these times, seems to be the one thing that makes me feel human and alive again. It's like "Yup! Them pipes are working!".
I actually hadn't given this much thought, but how very true. I wonder what else it affects without us attributing the source? I am in high anxiety and a bit manic. Monday I didn't eat at all. Tuesday I wanted to eat everything in sight. I keep exhausting myself by overdoing things. The one thing I can't seem to get right? Sleep. Thanks for the food for thought.
Let's hope that libido comes back. Maybe if I work on getting more regular sleep and exercise it would help. Really miss biking around town - very hard to do when I can't get enough breath through a mask.
So, after looking at BWA and a few other erotic blogs, I went on look at NY Times stories of current events, figuring I have a duty to stay informed. Of course, no libido at the end of that. It made me realize that my loss of libido correlates closely with starting to read NY Times articles several times a day. So that's a huge dilemma - cock vs. responsible citizen!
And it's not just the pleasure of stroking my cock. It's that cock energy is my life force and I'm closing to cut my self off. from it.
Exercise is good for stress. Have a good weekend.
Hugs and Bisous
I know a guy who always has a Summer Solstice circle jerk, but not this year.
@ Sixpence - "Masturbation is nature's Ambien." ~ Arianna Huffington
@ uptonking - Loss of appetite. Binge eating. Those are anxiety working on you, too. It hits us in so many different way without us realizing it.
@ MFP - Oh, please. One is more than enough. LOL. Hugs and bisous!
@ Mistress - I chose to let this one go through. And call him/her out on remaining anonymous. If you're going to throw shit, at least be man/woman enough to own it.
my libido is too much huge!
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