Morning.
"Ever wake up in the middle of the night with your dick really hard and you couldn't get back to sleep? That was me the other night. I finally went into the livingroom and rubbed one out. When I crawled back into bed, he was like you should've nudged me I would've helped with that. Does your other half think it's okay to wake them up for sex?"
Not in many, many years. But in my younger days? On so many occasions. It happened early in my current marriage but I didn't go anywhere; I took care of it right there in bed and she never woke up. A few days later we were visiting friends and the subject arose. Everyone agreed, "Absolutely, it's okay to wake a partner for sex."
That's the communication part of a relationship, though. Plus, I'd say you've got an advantage: Your other half is a man,
and if anyone can understand the need to tame a midnight boner it would (should) be a guy.
What are your thoughts, Readers?
Is it okay to wake a partner for sex?
28 comments:
No. Don't wake me up. I'm irritated when I first wake up LOL
Go rub one out, I don't mind
Yes, it is, and we have. If he has had a hard day, I try to be considerate and so is he. Hooter & Maximus
Sure!
Oh yes.
But as you said, consent must be given. If a partner wakes me up for sex, I will probably just go with it, but I'm one of those people who gets cranky if someone wakes me up. If he tells me beforehand that he may wake me up to bone me, I'd be more than happy to go with it. Yes.
XOXO
My husband and I have gotten to that age where a solid night of sleep is far more important that waking up for a romp. If he's on vacation / off from work, then we might play around a bit.
When I wake up with a raging hardon, I just... enjoy the sensation of being arroused. Usually it is a highly erotic dream where I have the body I had 30+ years ago and a cock that considerably bigger. If I wake up and try and take care of it, the reality and disappointment sets in between the dream and what my hand discovers...
If my sex partners or myself didn't wake one another up from a hard cock in the middle of the night....I say he get a snow storm in hell!!!! Hell....I even have fucked the Lad when he was sleeping once and he didn't wake. Too much drink. And when by myself i jack off in the middle of the night if my erection does subside...although I almost always jack off or have sex before falling asleep.
Yes, I think it is okay in most cases, but not if you know ahead of time your partner will get upset if you wake them. However, the person who is waking up their partner should not get upset if their partner is not interested at that time and wants to go back to sleep. And the partner who is woke up and declines should not get upset if the other wants to take care of their situation on their own. As always in all things, it is all about being open and honest with each other.
That's perfectly acceptable, too.
That's knowing how a partner is feeling and a good thing.
I'm sure Jerry appreciates that.
I'd think if knowing the possibility exists before sleep hits, hit it before you sleep. LOL.
XOXO
Oh, geez, Rad...try to stay within the sensations of the dream, keeping in the realm of fantasy might help.
What would he has said if he did wake up?
Absolutely. Communication - always.
Depends on whether partner has trouble sleeping or if they can fall back to sleep easily. If you wake up someone who suffers from insomnia, be prepared for pissed off blowback instead of a blow job.
I think the first time you do it, the reception you get should tell you. There are some folks who guard their sleep jealously, this is all part of communications.
Hugs and bisous.
100% wake me up with a blow job any time.
That's one of the things that needs to be discussed in principle beforehand, otherwise it enters the realm of non-consensual and someone would be justified in being upset of being taken advantage of.
Je suis tout à fait de ton avis..
Mon mec ne m'a jamais réveiller pour ça, moi j(aimerai bien ....
I have such a hard time falling to sleep... please don't wake me... just slip in and do it. I do have fantasies about that happening. :P
What if you wake up in the middle of the night and discover that your sleeping bed mate is erect? If I was that guy sleeping stiff, I'd love to be sucked awake.
Peut-être que tu devrais lui dire...
True.... It's best to know these things before you shake the bear.
Yep, I can be very cranky...and may actually strike out with a kick or a punch (the ,military can do that to you).
Hugs and bisous.
If it's slow and gentle.
It certainly could cause issues. If I'm touched during sleep, I have a tendency to strike out with a kick or a punch.
It could be interpreted as part of a dream.
It's been known to happen, I think. Most guys would probably enjoy that.
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