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"I consider myself straight but I've always been fascinated by dick. I like to look at them, for sure and love watching j/o videos. A while back I went to a Rain City Jacks meeting. It was an interesting experience watching everyone but not really my thing. How do I find a dude who wants to get together for some 1 on 1? Grindr sucks, they all want more than that and taking an ad on Craigslist is too scary. Any suggestions?"
Trust me, you are not an outlier. Even straight porn focuses on the boners, plain and simple. Particularly when it time for the Money Shot - because that's what everyone is there to see.
The jack off groups aren't for everyone. But they do report that approximately 20 to 25% of those attending identify as straight, and many of those are married.
I think a lot of folks will tell you Grindr is for folks looking for more than mutual masturbation. And Craigslist? Well, let's say it seems a bit, um...seedy? so I don't blame you on that score. Bateworld is mostly an online thing for video chatting and bating.
But, there's a website called Buddy Bate that's exactly what you're seeking. It's specifically for men looking to hook up in real life to masturbate.
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Since you mentioned trying out Rain City Jacks, you'll be happy to know that you'll find a lot of guys in that area on Buddy Bate.
Have a fun weekend.
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Bateworld is a great answer. And if you're on Reddit, there's an active subreddit group called JObudstories. Many post on there to ask the same question, "how do I find a JO bud?"
Use the link to BuddyBate above. It will take you to some great resources.
Good advice. You're always very accommodating.
Trust me, you're not the only guy looking to jerk off with another guy. That said, yeah, there are sites with masturbation-specific personals.
Well I do the webcam thing a couple times a week and that is fun. But I also think don't write the Jack's groups off yet. Even if its not this guy's thing, you can always Network and find people who are willing to do one-on-one. From my experience with the jacks and their gatherings I find people are interested in every level of sexual outlet...from just jacking one on one to full blown sex. I bet he'd find a jack off buddy there.
Oh, My!
Your correspondent needs to be a bit more specific. He likes dick. So do I.
He says he wants some 1 on 1... Exactly what kind of 1 on 1 does he have in mind?
Does he want physical contact? How much? Some 'brobate?' Trading hands and playing with each other?
Does he want to get naked with another guy, cuddle up, and play with the other guy's boner? And maybe his body?
We need information before we can describe what we want to do with this guy! (:
As my old man saying all men are bators!!
i would love to help him out with a 1-on-1
I always learn something from your blog, never knew of Buddy Bate or Rain City Jacks until now. Education and eye candy, you cannot beat that.
I remember when I moved (briefly) to White Plains NY (mid 90's), I tried to get into a straight JO group (I was desperate). As soon as I saw the guys stroking, I new I wanted more, but... rule were rules. No touching (let alone anything more). And they were adamant about it! I went that one time and then looked for other hookups.
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