Counter Proposal

 

Morning.

The morning wood and coffee - just kind of go together.

A question left on Monday's post:

"My coworker asked me something unusual. I became single at the beginning of the year, and we dirty talk a lot we've seen each other naked too. He was transferred and I met his wife at the last office party. They like cuckold and he asked me if I wanted to join in, he just wanted to watch. He showed me the group on his cell phone that he is part of, but his wife wants someone she knows. How do I refuse the proposal?"

There are people who like the idea of watching. It's like a porn movie playing out right there in front of them. And, yes, there are some folks, like this couple, who like watching their partner. For them, sex is sex and has nothing to do with their love for one another.

How do you refuse the proposal? In my mind, it should be as simple as saying it's not your scene --- not for you --- regardless of what you may have talked about in the past.

Though, I will say, there's nothing wrong with making a counter proposal that might be of more interest to you.

Readers: Any other ideas?

Jokes Into Reality

 

"Hope all is well. I am hoping for your very much needed wisdom. I have a buddy that I usually play weekly golf games with. We goof off and drink while playing. Talk about all the girls we had sex with when we were younger and so on and so forth. I have seen his dick before during our annual strip poker with our college buddies. But during our last round of golf, nature called and I went off to the woods. During which he came up and grabbed my dick. He laughed it off and said "just fucking with ya" later that night he sent 2 dick pics and a video of him jerking off. Am I reading too much into this, as this isn't his normal behavior? We have joked in the past about being bate buddies, since our wives were both pregnant at the time."

Well, I'd say, if it wasn't for the dick pics and jack off vid that, yes, he's only messing with you. But the pics and the video lead me to believe he's sending you a very clear message. He's ready and willing to turn the past jokes into reality.

It appears the ball is in your court - or, on your green. You'll have to find a way to let him know if you are actually interested and willing. You could accomplish that during your next golf outing with a beer in the clubhouse afterward.

Bate buddies can be a very good thing. Just like jacking off by oneself, it helps relieve the aching balls when your wives aren't accommodating, 

but gives you the opportunity to form a closer bond with your friend. 

Being closer gives you someone you can count on when the chips are down and you just need someone to listen, or you need help with some major chore or issue.

Readers, what's your take?

Literal Definition

Thanks, folks! The consultation went well, I guess; a full explanation of what to expect. His office will be calling to schedule it after insurance approval.

 

The literal definition may mean "sexual self-pleasure."

BUT

doesn't mean you have to be alone.