Gym Etiquette & Clean Up

 

It appears a lot of Readers have encountered other men jacking off at the gym; in the locker room, in the shower, in the sauna. The consensus is it's not really a problem, no one much cares.

As Jean stated: "I think it comes down to being mindful of where you are, a public locker/gym, so they may need to be more conservative. What do the locals do? Just take your cue from them. Hugs and bisous."

Gyms may toss men out once in a while, but as Maddie stated, "...mostly for "sanitary reasons" others and were told to use urinals' for that if they had to."

Adam agreed that is the real problem/question. "The unasked question though is about what to do if there's an ejaculation. Bodily fluids left behind in the gym shower will be a problem for some. What would you do in that situation?"

Regardless of what public space you may be in, if you're going to masturbate, clean up after yourself. Don't leave it for someone else to step in, or for the staff to clean up at the end of the day. You wouldn't cum all over your own floor or walls and leave it, don't do it at the gym.

In the showers? Wash it down. In the locker room or a men's room stall, wipe it up. In a sauna or steam room, gyms and day spas typically supply stacks of towels - - take an extra in with you to clean up.

Don't ever, ever, ever cum in the pool or jacuzzi spa.

Gym Etiquette

 

"I seen a guy in the showers at the gym with his back to the lockers and I could tell from the way he was standing and his ass was flexing that he was doing more than washing. I waited until he turned around before I went in to start my shower. His dick was starting to go down but still pretty hard. What is the proper manners when you see someone jerking off like that?"

Tough question. I'm assuming this is not a gay gym, so situational judgement has to take precedent.

If this offends you, you certainly can't confront someone with anger. No, never do that. The best thing you can do is inform management. At the same time, bear in mind that...guys jerk off. And acknowledge that quite a few men do jack off at the gym; one supposes for a variety of reasons. One is that the task of washing causes at least a bit of a boner.

If you are accepting of those two facts, then you'd probably want to simply pretend you don't see it and allow him to take care of his erection. Or, do as you did, walk away and come back to the area when you think (or know) he's done.

I've witnessed men masturbating at the gym. Quite a few times. I just gave a thumbs up and went on my way.

One time I was the one stroking my cock. I had no intention of cumming, I just wanted to prolong the boner. One guy left in a huff, the rest stayed and didn't utter a word.

Readers?

Ever witness guys jack off at the gym?

What did you do?

The More Open

 

Somewhere along the line, somebody asked if we could find out how it went with that dad who had to take the towels to his sons and tell them they were the new cum clean-up tools in lieu of paper products. Remember, the mom wrote in about the argument. Readers sided with her. Dad got the duty.

Well, if an answer is outstanding,  I will try to get it for you. And here it is:

"It wasn't a problem at all. It's not like I was afraid to tell my boys to stop using tp etc to clean up. My wife handed me a stack of the towels I knocked on their bedroom doors, handed them an equal number, and said no more tissue, tp or paper towels for jerking off. I got one No problem. Thanks and one Okay cool. They went back to whatever it was they were doing. Maybe even jerking off. LOL."

Households, where family members can acknowledge stuff like this are few and far between.

But, the more open we are, the easier it is.

Without Any Shame

 Speaking of sex toys. Here's a new one....

The Spiky Silicone Masturbation Glove

Brought to our attention by Alyson over at MEL.  "The silicone toy is made for everyone — that is, it’s prostate-friendly, good for both anal and vaginal pleasure. If you told me you weren’t at least a little curious about this, I’d say you were lying. If you do end up getting it, though, please break out the lube before you go exploring."

She has even linked to a nice article (with PG vid) and a full article, "Would You Jack Off With This..." on the variety of gloves now available.

Men, you have got to keep exploring. Especially in these days of CV-19 where we are locked down, many by themselves with no outlet other than their own hands which, as yesterday's question proves, can get tiresome, and leave us limp.

Enter sex toys.

The FleshJack is also available in a Vagina insert

Yeah, yeah, I know. Guys are still ashamed to admit they jerk off. Stop being that way. Men jack off, everyone knows it. It's common knowledge. And, I think all this lock-down stuff - - where even Public Health Departments are encouraging masturbation - - should be giving you all the green light to get off the toilet,

come out of the bathroom,

and enjoy yourselves without any shame.