LOL!! Well, to answer my own question, then... I've never gone scuba diving, let alone do it naked. And I've never gone bowling naked - though, for me, it sounds like it could be a really great fundraiser for an AIDS foundation... or maybe for a gay homeless shelter.
Anyway... I've gotten an Ask Pat question about aging as a gay man. The title of today's post matches the situation perfectly! As we age, even if we've kept as much of the six-pack as possible, retained most (if not all) of our hair - though bald is considered really hot now - and tried our best to carry ourselves with confidence and pride, we still get overlooked.
But, please don't think it's restricted to the gay community. This is rampant throughout the species! Older men look for younger women; women now are not frowned upon nearly as much for wanting younger men.
We are a very youth oriented society. Even trying to find a job - as I can testify from personal experience - gets tough.
Why? We've still got an awful lot we can contribute. Perhaps, even more so: We've learned some stuff that could come in mighty handy. But, especially when it comes to sex, we all love to ogle the young men. The smooth, tight, skin; the virileness of the instant hard-on, the staying power. The ability to cum and cum and cum.
I love looking at the younger crowd of naked guys. But it doesn't mean I pass up the older, more experienced ones.
So, before I address the question of what I think this man could do... Let me hear from all of you. Whether young or old, I want to know your thoughts on the subject.
12 comments:
I am 42 and have friends and lovers ranging from 20 years of age (Age of consent is 18 in Australia btw) to 60. You get a different thing from each individual spiritualy, socially or sexually, age is irrelevant.
I'm 50 and get the most requests for hookups from guys in their early 20s. I find this bizarre and don't understand it at all!
I often find the young guys don't cum any easier than the middle aged guys. This is probably due to their nervousness and inexperience.
I do like the fact that the young guys do not have a huge potbelly like many of the older guys. I find a big belly really unattractive!
I am 71 and still have a 6 pack, although it's not as pronounced as it once was. I work out every day and am well defined. I am bald on the top but still have plenty of body hair that is mostly still dark in color.
I have not had sex with anyone in over a year since I was "thrown away" by my partner of 12 years. I just can't bring myself to go into a Gay bar anymore.
Baldy
Correction = I have sex with RH quite regularly.
Baldy
One more = the first man in this post is REALLLY gorgeous.
I will think that with an old man, especially the picture of the last guy in the post, will be able to give the proper love during sex. He won't be a rough guy like the young ones, thought he will be a caring one and just going it slow.
As an older Queer Guy,I mostly have sex just for the fun of it. And because of that, younger guys seem to be more "fun"... no relationship junk... just "fun".
Guys my age or older seem to be always insearch of a partner. Not me.
But,,, I still enjoy fucking older guys when the chance arises.
I have always leaned towards older men, so now at 58 I look towards guys 55 to 65. Not only do I think they are attractive, I also like being able to relate to someone who has been through my experiences. But I do get some of the younger ones who are looking for the daddy type...and that can be fun too! But also, I have found that I am more content to let Porn be my outlet. I do use the little blue pill when I am going for the real thing, as that has always helped me in situations that I might be a little uneasy.
I'm an exception and I am aware of it. I knew I was gay before I knew the word for it. At 6 I took much pleasure in satisfying my uncle(about 25). I have been in a perfect relationship with the man of my dreams for many years. I am 78 and he still excites me and completely satisfies me sexually, emotionally, etc. I considered myself really blessed. I know it is almost impossible to find the perfect lover, but I did.
Im 20 and older guys (30-45) turn me on so much more. I just find maturity more attractive.
At 63 i find that more younger guys are attracted to me and I love it. Nothing gets a boner quicker than a hot young guy making a move on me. I love hairy pubes and hairy asshole to massage while he is blowing me.
As an older Queer Guy,I mostly have sex just for the fun of it. And because of that, younger guys seem to be more "fun"... no relationship junk... just "fun". Guys my age or older seem to be always insearch of a partner. Not me. But,,, I still enjoy fucking older guys when the chance arises.
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