"As much as a big dick might be admired (especially in the porn industry), is there such a thing as too big? When is a dick so large that it is just impractical? Like, “You want to put that where?’ too big?"
How big is too big?
Can a guy get stuck having to jack off all the time?
Or do their partners have to resort to oral sex all the time?
If you take my brother's word for it, it can be a real issue. For years women would get a gander at his cock and leave. He finally found a woman to accommodate him, and they're still married. But...
"Does Size Really Matter?" at Everyday Health takes it on and talks to everyday women and sexperts.
"Here’s something else guys don’t take into account when wishing for more inches: A woman may be reluctant to vault that big pole again. “You can be sore the next day and not so eager to have intercourse,” Shari says. “There were definitely times I said, ‘Don’t poke me with that thing.’”
"...accommodating an extra-large penis can result in vaginal injury. Extra-long members can bump against a woman’s cervix during intercourse, causing discomfort or pain. With larger girth, tearing could occur and cause bleeding. Making sex pleasurable with a well-hung honey comes down to three things: lubricant, patience and position experimentation."
"...accommodating an extra-large penis can result in vaginal injury. Extra-long members can bump against a woman’s cervix during intercourse, causing discomfort or pain. With larger girth, tearing could occur and cause bleeding. Making sex pleasurable with a well-hung honey comes down to three things: lubricant, patience and position experimentation."
Though I'm not as large as my brother, I can attest to the cervix issue. A woman I dated for close to two years used to make me pull out when I got close to ejaculation because the head of my cock would ram into her. Yes, the closer we get to orgasm, we guys can get carried away. Going "balls deep" as my brother puts it can be a problem, leaving them to pursue other positions.
There is a forum for the "big boys" called the Large Penis Support Group; LPSG.org, where men can get advice on how to handle their one-eyed monsters.
Do gay men have the same issues? I don't know....
Guys?
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I would say: Yes.
One-eyed monsters?
I think that monsters or not, there is two holes (here named eyes), one to piss and one to cum.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Have a splendid day.
Well you know me, I like a big cock to look at, and play slap and tickle, and even suck on it. And of course I love me Latin and South American men which are historically hung like horses. But I'll be honest I very seldom bottom if a guy is too big. I did that once and the guy must have had about 12 in. All I can tell you it was not pretty for the next 3 days. Of course I'm not usually the best bottom I usually prefer to top. So if I am laying on my back and I have a guy on top of me I do find it a huge turn on to watch the big cock bounce. But I do agree you're very limited as to what you can do unless you want to be in traction for a month.
I'm gay man and many years ago, while sitting in the sauna, that kind of bald «M. Clean» man came in with his towel on and wanted to get me. He sat infront of me and open his towel to proudly show me his «HUGE» dick hard and ready to use....
It was so big that my mouth and anus just freak out and my heart too..
I have a small mouth and my anus ia also quite hard to open.
So, yes, too big dicks are turn off, at least for me.
On the opposite side, I did have sex with a man that had a very small dick even with a hardon but he was sweet and really knew how to please a man. One of the best fucks I did have.
I once was with a guy that when I saw it I eventually left because I was afraid he would try t force it in me.I tried sucking but it hurt to stretch my mouth to go around the thing. My eyes were bigger than my mouth. Maximus also agrees that one could be too big.
Yes, there is such thing as a dick that's too big.
I'm not letting a ten incher hit it. Nope. I do like to look at big dicks but I won't sit on one.
Men who are too big go straight to the IAS and there can be a crisis. Not happening.
I feel for women when a huge dick hits their cervix.
XOXO
This seems to be the best answer: "Making sex pleasurable with a well-hung honey comes down to three things: lubricant, patience and position experimentation." Hugs and bisous.
I'm a gay aficionado of well-hung men. Practice makes perfect!
When I was first getting into sacktime play with other grown men (I was then 27 yrs old), the 8-9"-long dicks w/ 6" circumference/girth were difficult to endure, but eventually with lots of practice with very patient partners, my anus grew comfortable with penises that big.
By the time I was in my late 30s I was easily able to accommodate 10-12"ers (w/ about 8" girth).
Luck can also play a role! By my late 40s I was lucky enough to find a long-term partner that size who was as crazy for me as I was wild for him. And that spark's never abated -- we've now been a couple for decades and are celebrating our 25th anniversary this month. (It sure helps that he's a total top and I'm a talented bottom with no desire to top him or anyone else.)
I'm a gay aficionado of well-hung men. Practice makes perfect!
When I was first getting into sacktime play with other grown men (I was then 27 yrs old), the 8-9"-long dicks w/ 6" circumference/girth were difficult to endure.
But eventually with lots of practice with very patient partners, my anus grew comfortable with penises that big.
By the time I was in my late 30s I was easily able to accommodate 10-12"ers (w/ about 8" girth).
Luck can also play a role! By my late 40s I was lucky enough to find a long-term partner that size who was as crazy for me as I was wild for him.
And that spark's never abated -- we've now been a couple for decades and are celebrating our 25th anniversary this month.
(It sure helps that he's a total top and I'm a talented bottom with no desire to top him or anyone else.)
honestly I think, as for small cocks, even for big ones the strategy is always the same: you need to know how to use well what mother nature has given you. And don't limit sex to using your own dick (as JiEL said).
It would generally be a huge (sic) problem for gay men because we just aren't designed for large object entry, however women are designed to accommodate items the size of a baby's head, albeit with extreme discomfort, yet even large penises are somewhat smaller than that and ultimately should not be a problem if handled sensitively and sensibly. Even birth requires a slow approach to allow stretching of tissues adequately to accommodate.
I would posit that many women would baulk at the idea of a large penis, as they likely do even with the idea of giving birth to a baby, rather than the actual practicality.
However, simply being able to accommodate something doesn't mean it doesn't require considerable attention to preparation to insert something so large, just as any sex requires initial preparation to ensure adequate lubrication for comfort.
I find large dicks arousing, but ironically impractical.
What gets me though is women losing their virginity by a large penis: that's got to be traumatic, especially when most men would not know how to make it more comfortable and just brutally ram it home.
Apologies for my unintended double post above -- sorry! I thought I was just editing a draft but somehow posted the thing twice. I'll be careful not to do that again. Cheers to the host and readers!
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