Two messages prompted this post.
"Have you done the topic of inter-generational males being nude together?
Father son, Grandfather grandson, partnered male couples."
I've certainly posted about generations being naked together. Naturist places don't discriminate at all --- entire families belong and attend those campgrounds and resorts. It's a way of life for them and has nothing to do with sex.
"We've never been shy about nudity. Now all of a sudden my son hits puberty and doesn't want to be naked in front of me. He can't explain it I get the old I don't know. What's this about?"
Most of us hit an age when we suddenly don't want our parents to see us naked. I think it has to do with the behavior of our parts. You know, all those boners popping up out of nowhere when puberty hits.
Boners are normal. Boners are healthy.
Halloween is coming up.
A few costume suggestions if you're attending any parties this weekend:
Here's an idea if you need to contribute.
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I think having nudist relatives could be very healthy in what respects to body image and relationship with nudity.
I'm one of those people who likes to be nude only in front of a lover. I get the idea of intergenerational nudity, though..
And every boner is a blessing. He should let his son know that. And respect his desire for privacy.
XOXO
Thank you for the intergenerational photos. Love seeing the bond of nudity across age lines.
PS. Some great ideas for a nude costume party. Used to belong to a nude male group several years ago and we had this kind of party every year. Now we host our own.
For the parent whose son has become self conscious with puberty. Are his contemporaries hitting puberty at the same time? It's difficult for kids who hit puberty early or late because other kids will point out the differences. Even if he is at the same stage as his classmates they will be differently hairy, muscle and of course penis sizes. He may need reassurance because of this.
I got self conscious around my younger brother at that age, I wasn't sure of myself and didn't want his scrutiny, I couldn't explain what was going on because like you say it's 'don't know' with a shrug.
I'm glad I'm not dealing with it, good luck.
The nudity thing just depends on the people. Some people are comfortable with being nude and others are not.
My partner and his dad have always gone nude around each other and still do. His dad a nudist though and if he can go nude he will. His dad always pushes for being open and body positive. His dad acts more like a brother or friend than a father. When his dad stays over we all go nude around the house, we only put anything on if we need to go out and whenever we eat (just a robe). Even if we have a hard on none of us cover up. Mornings all of us are walking around with a hard dick. Everyone has walked in each other jerking off its nothing. Its either let the other jerk off in peace, continue with what you were going to that person for or join in.
His parents were young when they started having kids so his dad not that much older than us.
Several different - but good - ideas.
I was so lucky. My Dad taught me early on that hard ons are okay. In the morning, we walked around erect without a qualm. In fact, he never batted an eyelash when I jerked off, and I didn't flip out if he did it in front of me.
Just simply reinforces how much influence parents can have. I kinda like that grim reaper. Hugs and bisous.
Any of those trick or treaters come to my door, I'll grab a treat all right!!
The dad needs to talk to his son and tell the son he is old enough to decide if he wants to wear clothes around home or not. For the son it could be some social issues. The son may feel he can't invite guy friends or girl friends over because his dad is naked.
In an indirect way, the son may be telling his dad that it is not cool to be naked any longer. At this point in the son's life you don't want to do anything that may put a "wall" between the two of them.
I've been in groups of naked men a few hundred times: erotic workshops, the local gay swimming hole, GNI, Easton Mountain, etc. usually with quite a spread of ages. It seems like the most natural thing!
Most guys seem to have desire patterns - probably a combination of experience and something innate. I've always gone for younger guys. My husband is 30 years younger and goes for daddies. We met 15 years ago at a gay sweat lodge, standing naked around the fire heating the rocks outdoors. Mostly daddies, so he was in heaven flirting with all of the rest of us. A few months later we met again at the same place for a weekend retreat and the owner put us in the same room to get to know each other better. (A few years earlier, he'd met his partner at aa group erotic massage at my house!). A few months later we started living together.
When I was 16, my older brother asked me how much my dick measures hard, I said 7 and he replied that it was like him, he said that grandpa said my uncle was a black monster, but he only had daughters. One day my uncle and grandfather were planning a fishing trip, my brother heard and said that we wanted to go too. When we got back, my grandfather went to sleep, and my uncle went to take a shower, my brother said let's do a prank, we got into the bathroom when he turned off the shower, we went in and caught him naked, my brother said I'm sorry, and I remained motionless, I had never seen a monster dick, my uncle laughed and shook it. He really was a black monster!
last one is an ouija
@fullmoonma: You know, an onion (sweat lodge) is for ritual purification, right? Traditionally we even bind the foreskin forward so we don't get a spontaneous erection. (Also, it's thought steam directly on the glans impairs a man's ability to have children.)
I'm microdick like my dad, just a little head nub, I've always seen my dad naked, every time he had a chance to get naked he was, he always tried to show me that we should be proud of what we have. It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion in the ocean.
*inipi Damn autocorrect!
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