A Harmless Kink

 

"Mirror, mirror, on the wall...."

Some of you are probably too young to remember the mirror craze of the 70s. It was thought quite the kink to put mirrors above the bed, but plenty of people did. When that seemed a bit too obvious for some folks, the mirrored closet doors came into vogue. Of course, the designers excuse was "it made the rooms seem larger," and the kink of watching yourself during sex was just a perk.

Today, with the proliferation of selfies in front of mirrors, it seems the craze is making a comeback. 

And some guys are taking it a step further and watching themselves jack off as evidenced by an email I received after a guy visited his brother and saw a mirror all splattered and streaked and wanted to know if that meant his brother is a narcissist.

Is it narcissistic?

Maybe a little. As long as this dude isn't "all about himself 100% of the time," I'd say it's just a pretty harmless kink.

Let him enjoy himself.

A Widespread Fetish

With sincere thanks to Gabriel at the Barefoot Men blog

 

"I have a huge foot fetish and always jerk off to nice male feet (after I carefully read your blog posts). Do you know anything particular to foot fetish? I also love edging for hours and when feet are included in this process I have a great orgasm with a strong cum fountain. Is it common? How widespread foot fetish can be?"

Oxford defines Fetish as "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. Victorian men developed fetishes focusing on feet, shoes, and boots"

As you can tell from the Oxford entry, Foot Fetish has been around for many, many years. 

And some adult sites recognize that by catering to it. 

There are so many kinds of Fetish (think Leather, or shoes/boots), sometimes called "kink" (think Golden Showers, or Bondage) when a thing seems particularly "out of the norm." But, I believe a foot fetish is pretty common, whether the preference is to look at and touch them or whether to be touched, etc.

So, enjoy yourself without embarrassment. Men have been fantasizing over feet for centuries.

Inclusive Self-Expression

 

Faithful Reader, David, provides today's photos. He's getting to be quite artistic in his photography and promoting inclusive self-expression.

What's Your Take

 

When it comes to sex, if your mind can conjure a scenario there are some who will find it arousing, and some will consider it a "kink." "Kinky sex" is everywhere.

Exhibitionism. BDSM. Leather and rubber wear. Role play. Voyeurism. Swinging. Group sex. Group masturbation. Camming. And, purportedly, the former president's favorite: Golden showers. There are millions of them. Some of the more outlandish are considered really off the rails, even by those who might be into one of those I've mentioned.

But, then there's Armie. Armie Hammer has said he's being "kink shamed" for the things he says were consensual that his ex is claiming were not. Should he (they) be judged by the rest of us?

What's your take?