"I'm straight and have a friend who is openly gay. We've been doing a lot of flirting over the past months and I admit it's been fun and I'm interested and curious. Because I've been surfing blogs and porn sites to find out what might happen I'm very nervous about doing anything I admit it always makes me hard and I jerk off. But, do all gay guys like rimming and anal fucking? Will he be pissed if we start something but I won't want to do those things?"
Flirting how?
Is it clear to him you're interested in exploring? Because that's what your initial foray would be; exploration.
There are plenty of guys who identify as straight and don't have any interest beyond mutual masturbation, frottage, and fellatio. And, I have known a gay couple for years and that's all they do.
If those are your boundaries...if you move forward...you need to tell him about your trepidation. You both need to be comfortable with what takes place. You both need to remember that "No" means "No." And there can be no pouting or offense taken by stopping any activity that you aren't enjoying.
But, let's have readers chime in on this one.
Readers?
