The More You Know

 

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You may have seen my posts about Exercise Boners. Those spontaneous erections that crop up during exercise routines.

Yesterday Rick posted a short video on his blog with a guy having a spontaneous ejaculation. The first comment solidified my suspicion that it can happen.

"...no. 4 is experiencing a coregasm, also known as exercise-induced orgasm. It occurs during intense physical exertion. The leading theory is that intense engagement of the pelvic floor and lower abdominal muscles puts pressure on internal nerves or the prostate. Exercises that require "hollowing" the abs or sustained tension (like the "Captain’s Chair" leg raise, planks, or heavy squats) are the most frequent triggers. "

I don't have the video to share, but you can find it on Rick's blog HERE. 

You'll have to scroll up past the comments to the video.

Normal Things

 

Morning

"Wanted to thank you. Over the weekend my son said can I ask a question and I had the answer for the second time. The first was about the morning hardness and this time it was his first wet dream. So thank you for all the info you provided over the years."

Thanks for being a reader for so long. You're entirely welcome.

Education is the number one reason why I do this. The morning boner, the boners that pop up out of nowhere, the first wet dream.... 

These things are normal developments, and we should be able to explain them as such without embarrassment.

Small Spurts

 

Good morning.

"My fiance sent me in to a slaon spa for the whole shebang. Haircut, facial, mani-pedi, manscape, massage before our wedding because she said she wanted me to be all spriced up for the honeymoon. Everything went well until the manscape (pube trim, and shaft, sack and crack) when he put shaving balm on everything. I came sort of like two small spurts of cum. That was so weird. I mean I would've expected it more with the massage then the waxing because I did get a boner there too. He cleaned me up without a word like it happens all the time. Does it?

p.s. The honeymoon was great."

Congratulation on the marriage! From everything I've heard and read about manscaping, it's very common for men to get an erection. Some aestheticians prefer it because it makes their job easier. The small spontaneous ejaculation? Well, I expect it can happen. But it may have been pre-cum being released. But, he cleaned you up without mentioning it, so it didn't offend him. I wouldn't worry about it. Glad you had a good honeymoon, too.

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Very Obvious

Yesterday's post ended up being a perfect lead-in for this. Spontaneous boners are expected. Guys deal with them all the time. Spontaneous cum? Not so much.

But it does happen to some guys.

Spontaneous Ejaculation (SE, once called SjE).

I covered this way back in 2015 (you can read the post Here). But recent studies are showing that doctors are still somewhat confounded.

It may be expected with an exercise boner as movement of material causes stimulation.

But with no stimulation, it can sneak up and surprise you.

This is not the nocturnal emission, or wet dream, you may have experienced. 

This is a for real, non-sexually stimulated ejaculation.

According to the recent article Spontaneous Ejaculation: A Focused Review for Clinicians at PubMed - National Library of Medicine / National Center for Biotechnology, it can be a distressing experience for some guys. Just like premature ejaculation, it's considered "ejaculatory dysfunction." Sadly, the understanding of this particular phenomenon is limited.

"The process of ejaculation has important meanings not only for its association with orgasm but also for the timing to ejaculate in the context of sexual activity. Spontaneous (involuntary) ejaculation (SE) without any sexual stimulation is a distressing symptom. Our understanding of SE is limited. Unfortunately, many physicians are not aware of these cases.

"SE is one of the least reported ejaculatory dysfunctions. The key feature shared in common by these men is SE without any sexual thoughts or fantasies, may be triggered by non-sexual contexts, rarely associated with orgasm or erection. Treatment by psychoanalytic treatment and pharmacotherapy may be helpful. Further research might explore the definite underlying mechanisms."

According to American Journal of Psychiatry, an unexpected ejaculation can occur with severe anxiety.

"The central noradrenergic neurophysiology that anxiety may share with sexual excitement could provide a basis for spontaneous ejaculation during anxiety. The pharmacology of spontaneous ejaculation during opiate withdrawal is used to elaborate this central noradrenergic model."

Women experience unexpected "lady boners," just like guys sprout wood at odd times. Spontaneous orgasms are more common in women, though still rare. However, just like the boner, the difference is that, with men, it's very obvious.