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Take a Stand

 

Morning

"my brother and me shared a room at home. we slept naked and never worried about morning boners. Now here we are in our 40s back home for our dad's funeral and having to share that same room and we're going to be here a while. suddenly he won't sleep naked because his wife won't let him. and he wouldn't get out of bed until his dick went down because of some stupid comment his wife made years ago. I think it's ridiculous it's not healthy and told him he needs to find his balls again. do guys really give up comfort for their wives?"

My condolences for your loss. I have no doubt that some people do give things up when they get married. The old adage "happy wife, happy life" is usually the reason. For something like this, it's a bullshit reason, especially considering the health benefits of sleeping nude.

Some women don't like the pre-cum (that sometimes happens with nighttime boners) staining the bed linens, so they'll insist their men wear something at night.

Well, pre happens and they need to get over it.

I've said it before and I'll say it again: The danger of cracking the Tunica if the cock gets caught in briefs or pjs is real. And the resultant damage --- if severe enough --- can require surgery to repair.

As for waiting to roll out of bed until the cock goes soft? For some reason, she's made morning wood embarrassing for him. You'd think by now guys getting morning wood would be common knowledge and accepted as a fact of life. Sometimes, a guy needs to take a stand. This is one of them.

Not much you can do about that except remind him you've seen it a million times before and he's got no reason to hide it from you.

Readers, have you made concessions like this to a spouse or partner?

Small Spurts

 

Good morning.

"My fiance sent me in to a slaon spa for the whole shebang. Haircut, facial, mani-pedi, manscape, massage before our wedding because she said she wanted me to be all spriced up for the honeymoon. Everything went well until the manscape (pube trim, and shaft, sack and crack) when he put shaving balm on everything. I came sort of like two small spurts of cum. That was so weird. I mean I would've expected it more with the massage then the waxing because I did get a boner there too. He cleaned me up without a word like it happens all the time. Does it?

p.s. The honeymoon was great."

Congratulation on the marriage! From everything I've heard and read about manscaping, it's very common for men to get an erection. Some aestheticians prefer it because it makes their job easier. The small spontaneous ejaculation? Well, I expect it can happen. But it may have been pre-cum being released. But, he cleaned you up without mentioning it, so it didn't offend him. I wouldn't worry about it. Glad you had a good honeymoon, too.

14 Days until Election Day

but early voting is in progress in many states.

Too Much

 

"Is there any way to reduce the amount of precum? My dick leaks like a sieve even if I'm just horny without a hard-on. If a boner pops I do the waistband tuck but then the pre gets on my shirt."

Some guys would give a right or left nut to produce more because it makes for excellent lubrication. But I get it. Wet spots can be a bit embarrassing.

According to WebMD:

"Excessive pre-ejaculate is not a medical problem or a threat to health.   Pre-ejaculatory fluid is also known as precum. Semen leakage during certain activities is normal. However, frequent or excessive leakage may cause distress. But if you want to reduce it, you should talk to your physician. Medicines like finasteride can relieve such symptoms."

It is also important to know that in some men sperm leaks into precum. If unintended pregnancy is also a concern for you, you might want to consider putting on a condom sooner into activity.

In the meantime, you might think about keeping a folded-up handkerchief with you that you can tuck down into your briefs to absorb the excess.