Your Body & Self Love

I hope everyone had a great weekend, and that all my Christian readers had a joyous Easter.

And that my Jewish readers has an enjoyable Passover.

And I thank you all for the lovely comments and emails!

Blogger buddy AOM's posts today are about Narcissus and self-loving and the difference between the two. Beautiful images! (You should pop on over and visit.)

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But, it brought to mind... I've posted about Body Electric before, but I don't think I expressed how much they really do. Yes, a portion of the weekend is spent on learning to become multi-orgasmic (it is possible for men, you know). So, there is the trading of massages to that end.

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But along the way, as other men undress you, you learn become comfortable with your body - your entire body, which, yes, means your package. Sloughing off the shame and embarrassment of it, and the way it works and responds.

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 There is also the lesson of gaining confidence. And self-worth, as the men express to you what they see that is particularly beautiful; your spirit, or a physical attribute. For me to be described as 'attractive,' to be told I had the 'kindest, most beautiful eyes,' that I exuded a 'warmth of personality that was hard to ignore,' that my smile 'radiated,'  my 'aura was beautiful which makes you beautiful' these things were overwhelming and truly brought tears of joy.

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I came away from that weekend with a new sense of self. I learned to trust other men - which is something I never really did before (mainly due to the awful childhood at the brutal hands (fists) of my father). I gained a knowledge and appreciation of my man-parts I'd never known before. An entire weekend spent naked with others changed me for the better.

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I came away from that weekend spent with over 40 men feeling good about myself; a new-found peace had settled over me. I spoke and moved with more assurance that I had something of worth to offer the world. Perhaps that's why I felt worthy of writing this blog. Perhaps that why I write this blog - to spread that same knowledge, that same sense of confidence, that same sense of self-worth, self love.

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I cannot recommend the seminar enough. They have classes for men

women

and for couples.

Check out the website Body Electric School

Dick on Drugs

I'm not a drinker, so WTF is going on down there?

You know what else can bust a boner? Drugs. I'm not talking about the occasional recreational use, toking on a bit of weed now and then - but, of course, overuse could cause a flagging flagpole. But stuff like crack and heroin will kick your dick in a hurry.

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But those aren't the only drugs you need to be cautious about. Prescribed meds can knock your dick in the dirt, too. And, it may not even be a certain medication - it may be the combination of different pills you must take. Now, I know you think I'm going to tell you to head straight to the doc if you can't get a hard-on and suspect medication is the culprit.

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Do a little research,

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If you think your cock won't cooperate because of interacting meds, the best person in the world to ask is your Pharmacist. Yes, sir. He, or she, will be more apt to know. It's their job to know how drugs interact. I know, I know - you have a tough time asking your doctor about package problems and now I'm telling you to go talk to the guy behind the counter in a drug store??? You want your cock to look like this

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then, yes. Swallow the fear and embarrassment and go ask.

Booze and Boners

During my military days, I had a buddy who had been schtupping our supervisor's wife; using the excuse that he got a "hard-on once in a while."

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"You've got hands - use them."

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"Why should I do that when I've got someone willing to fuck?"
"You'll get court-martialed, man."
He shrugged, "He's not fucking her, I might as well."

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Well, of course, pregnancy resulted and he recruited my assistance in her getting an abortion. If I'd known more back then, there would've been more than one lesson to learn. First, I could've told him I hoped he was getting a hard-on more than just "once in a while."

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Second lesson: Booze and boners don't mix.

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One beer or drink - maybe even two - for social purposes is fine.

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Nobody will argue that (well, hardly any one). A little nip can calm your nerves and take the edge off before jacking off with a buddy for the first time 

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or trying to get in someone's pants for the first time can also help,

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rather than hurt the rising of your root.

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But, excessive drinking kills more boners than you can shake your log at. If you want to retain the ability to get and stay like this

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don't drink to excess.

Happy April!

Well, it's April 1...the day those in the US call April Fools...perhaps because we think Spring is here (nature certainly makes the male of most species extra horny when Spring arrives) but the next cold front beats down on us. Anyway, I thought today would be a good day for some fun.

So, there!

Photo Proud

Would you run away from the Big Bad Wolf?

Providing a way for str8 dudes to have fun together without fear of labels

All men are NOT created equal

Would he need to tell YOU twice?

I may have to pass some of these around, but I'd add "Stand Proud" above it

Ride 'em cowboy!

Who's in?

Did they really think bulldozing the park and building a shopping mall would stop the activity?

Yep. But the wise man would use real lube and a towel - lotion is absorbed too quickly and tissue breaks apart too easily

Let's post this on every street corner

You need to refocus the camera - you missed the shot

Who says today's Youth won't follow the rules?

You've always been told to eat a good hearty breakfast, haven't you?

Just in case you missed breakfast

Don't forget dessert!