How to Stay Hard

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Peak of Pleasure

Guys have often felt envy for the ability of women to have multiple orgasms. We'd love to be able to do that, we say. We can. Yes. It's entirely possible, without a doubt. Faithful Reader Fullmoonma attests to this in his blog detailing his daily practice.

But, before you can achieve this, you have to be able to separate an orgasm

from an ejaculation.

They are two completely different things.

Did you know that a man's orgasm actually happens first, before the ejaculation? The autonomic muscles of the prostate and testicles spasm which force the seminal fluids to exit the body.

As Joe Duncan points out in a recent article for MEL Magazine, "For women, sex is more experience-oriented, for men sex is more goal-oriented, to put it simply.

This is entirely understandable for both of the sexes, considering their biological make-up calls for different things, if we’re talking simple procreation, men definitely need to achieve [ejaculatory] orgasm — women do not. So it makes complete sense that men are much more orgasm-focused than women."

That's fine if procreation is your goal. But, it would seem you'd want to enjoy the ride, extend the pleasure for as long as possible regardless of your sexual orientation. There are many different teachings available out there, from the religious (Tantric)

to practical (Body Electric) seminars.

It's not only physical acuity - it's mental as well. Learning to recognize the Point of No Return - that point where you cannot stop the ejaculation from happening; reaching a peak of pleasure without going over the edge.

Chances Are

Faithful Reader, bob, wanted to learn more about the Body Electric programs. Like me, bob is married. The seminar I attended was for men. Yet I brought my new-found knowledge and feelings home with me. They have stayed with me. And, most important of all, my wife has been the recipient of the changes. The experience enabled me to better and more freely express my wants, needs, desires, with confidence. And, isn't that what most people (women) want: a sharing of expression?

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Faithful Reader, Jean, said: ...men are so thoughtful in their comments; so this is how men think. Yep, Jean, I believe all men think in this way, they simply haven't learned how to express it in words and they resort to resisting the natural urge, hiding, pushing it down.

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So, Straight Dudes, give it a go. Dive on in.

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Yes, you will get naked with a bunch of men.

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Yes, they will touch your cock, your balls - at some point with the express purpose of giving you a hard-on. They will ask you to express what you desire. Chances are he will have a hard-on while doing so.

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Yes, you will be touching another man's cock, his balls - eventually with the express purpose of giving him a boner. You will ask him what he desires.

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And, chances are very good that you will have a hard-on while doing so.

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If what you've done prior to this has worked, you may be nervous at first, but you will both have learned that it's okay.

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All you need is the self-confidence to shove fear away.

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More Body Electric

Some of the comments left on yesterday's post brought tears to my eyes and a lump in my throat. I appreciate them so very, very much. One anonymous reader had questions about the Body Electric experience... And, Anonymous, my Faithful Readers, there is no reason to apologize for asking so many questions; this is why I am here.

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No, there was no time spent alone with any of the men who attended. In fact, any individual activity outside class is discouraged. At first, I didn't quite understand that. But, as the weekend progressed, I certainly got it. The idea is to share the erotic experience and the naked bonding with the entire group.

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Yes, the entire body is brought into play over the weekend. From head to toe. Through this you find new erogenous zones, and what you find sensual and where. You become more aware of each and every inch of your body - not just the cock, or the balls.

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So, everything is done together in a large room for all to see, for all to experience. This is a means of learning that you are different from other men, yes. But you are also the same. The desires, needs, wants, hopes, and, yes, even dreams may not be exactly the same as the other men. Yet, they are. You are worthy of love and respect, just as they all are. You discover that you really do belong to a brotherhood - a brotherhood of men.

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You learn that what you have is what you were born with.

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It is supposed to be there; you have no reason to be ashamed of it.

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It is supposed to get hard; you have no reason to be embarrassed by that.

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It is supposed to be pleasurable; you have no reason to deny it or to deny yourself those sensations, you are worthy; you deserve it.

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We should cherish and support one another, love as we love ourselves; care [for them] in times of need. In fact, today is a perfect opportunity: blogger buddy Lord Patrick of More of the Same reminds us that today is World Health Day. If you know someone who is long past due for a check-up, encourage them to schedule a complete physical.