Monday, February 10, 2014

A Magic Wand


What was your introduction to sex? How did you learn what to do? 

No. I don't mean "Part A goes into Slot B" or "The sperm fertilizes the egg" kind of crap. I mean, where did you learn about thrusting in and out; how to control the timing of your orgasm; how oral sex worked; that both partners (whether M-F or M-M) could cum by frot?

Who taught you what your boners were all about and what you were supposed to do with them?


No matter how much we might wish it, there is no Faerie Godfather to recite some incantation over the marriage bed to make your magic wand work. How did you know what to do the first time you had sex with a partner?





Where did you learn what it should or shouldn't do; how to know if there was something wrong with it?






What are good friends for???? Great post again!

Your French Patrick said...

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David Jeffreys said...

I think that most of it came instinctively, but I do admit reading medical books.

No one had to teach me how to jack off. I discovered my penis all on my own. By the time I married, I had read and heard enough to know what to do. The one big surprise that I received was that a woman's vagina is so well lubricated when she excited!

iama{GAY}tekeeper said...

I often wonder how I knew about sex @ an early age

Xersex said...

#1 for Quinn and his dick!
#7 for the shot and
#8, for the creamy milk!

About my first sexual experience, I can make you sure I had watched to so many porns movies, that I was able to make sex very well!!!

Don't miss my last (gay)romantic post:

Fluffy33 said...

To be honest much of what I learned came from the playground, and as I've never had sex, not even successful oral, there is still a heck of a lot that I've got to learn.

O!Daddie now at said...

My best friend matured early, and he taught me the basics.

My first real girlfriend and I taught each other the fine points by hook and crook.

After my first adult m2m encounter, the guy told me that I had natural talent and 'took to this like a duck takes to water'.

That was a great confidence-builder for a rookie and I've since dedicated myself to honing my skill and becoming the 'best ever'. OMG, do I LOVE cock !!

whkattk said...

@ Fluffy33 - Ah, the infamous playground classroom - where misinformation is rife! I truly wish you find someone who will be kind and patient, and teach you everything you want to learn. (And give you a proper blow job!!!)