"And finally, New Rule: if polls show we now live in an America that can accept gay marriage and legal marijuana, it's time we knocked over the next social domino — Puritanism." - Bill Maher
As blogger buddy Torn Jeans pointed out in a comment to yesterday's post, we must stop passing judgement on others. He and his lover run a tantric massage business and see many straight men as clients. These men are not the least interested in leaving their spouses; they love them, deeply and sincerely.
But, women (sorry Ladies, but you know it's true for many, if not most, of you!) adopt this indignant attitude, a sense of 'feeling used,' if their man simply wants to be serviced, or if they want to have sex just for the enjoyment of it, without the need to cling and/or cuddle.
Men are men. Sometimes - well, okay, most of the time - we just want to have fun...
get our rocks off, and get on with life.