And, here we are; facing the weekend. Well, it's not just a break from the workweek (if your schedule is such), it's an opportunity for you shy guys - straight or gay. (Yes, there are gay guys who can be just as shy about baring themselves in front of other dudes.) Think of this as your weekend to get shed your clothes, work at shedding your inhibitions, and learning to appreciate and love yourself.
Get to know your cock. Get naked. Enjoy it. Get a big old boner. Enjoy it.
Get to fully understand you are not different. You are a man. Yes, you may be a "grower" rather than a "shower." So what? Most men are. Those hung dudes you've seen in porn, or maybe in the locker room or gang shower at the gym, they're "growers" too. It's just that they've got a bit of a woody going.
And they don't care if you see it. Because they're men. Because it's normal. Because it's the natural physiological function of their dicks.
That guy at the gym who wanders around with a hard-on as if he doesn't have a care in the world? His boner doesn't bother him because he's not ashamed of it. He knows that's what a cock does - it gets hard. It bones up so many times a day, it's nothing to be concerned about. Doesn't mean he's gay; it means he's a man with a perfectly, properly functioning cock.