Monday, March 16, 2015

Tracing (Cock) Shame

1
A very long-time Faithful Reader, in reference to Bring Back the Bulge, suggested the shame and embarrassment we men experience for our equipment can be traced back to the females of our species. Particularly to our mothers. He may be on to something, there.
2
Indeed, as I responded to his email, I clearly recall emerging from my room for a date in a new pair of pants, prominent bulge in the crotch, and my mother's comment: "You want everyone to know what you've got?" Well, the pants were the style of the day, and I shrugged and left.
3
I have earlier memories, as well. Accompanying my mom to a grocery store, digging at an itch in my package, and having her say, "Don't do that, it's not nice." "But it itches!" "I don't care. Stop it. It's not polite to do that in front of people."
4
Being forced to go commando when she hadn't done laundry, my little cock boned and protruding - what's the natural reaction of a kid but to touch it? I didn't know what it was doing, or why. "Stop playing with yourself, it's not nice. It's dirty." Of course, as soon as I was beyond her view, I went right back to playing.
5
Whether simply the natural bulge in our pants
6
scratching an itch,
7
adjusting for comfort,
8
or dealing with a boner,
9

10

11
it seems we were being admonished at every turn for acknowledging what we have between our legs.
12
And, Lordy! when we hit puberty and that perpetual hard-on began, trying to stroke it into submission...it was as if the world would end because we'd discovered pleasure in our cocks. 
13
And we had to take our jacking off into hiding.
14
******************************************************
Confidential to "hello! from japan": Bro, you left a few comments - which were deeply appreciated - and then disappeared so suddenly. I hope all is okay with you.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

i'd love to see some of these in public(just like looking at hot women;)) love to watch that beautiful chest hair beauty itch himself in the shot with him in a warehouse! he's hot!or the other beauty in the kitchen ;)love the dick color on #1 shot!
bob

Xersex said...

the fact is among men there's no problems about boners! another reason for being happy to be gay!!!

Spear said...

I can relate to what you say. Growing up in the 40's, all I heard was "down there". Nothing was ever said what was down there, just "down there" Not a word about masturbation, or anything about sex. Had to learn for myself later on. Turned out I was gay from the get go, and haven't looked back since.

Your French Patrick said...

LOL, if you were as on the photo N° 8, 10 & 11, your mother wasn't perhaps quite wrong to ask you "You want everyone to know what you've got?"
On the other hand, you've got it from her, isn't it.
You'ld have answered: "I am proud and thankful of what you gave me, Mom!".
I wish you a wondrous day, my dear friend, with a lot of bisous where you can guess.

AOM said...

I believe what you've said to be 100% true. I remember my mom getting on to me about the same thing. How could that type of behavior by our mothers NOT be shaming. It is the beginning of a whole series of shame we all feel about our penis and balls and the feelings associated with them. It is the beginning of neurosis for some men. I know it is not possible but some type of training about how to raise healthy boys should be included in every school curriculum for mothers. Great stuff bro. Wishing a fun hands in the pants day! Hugs and Strokes, AOM

LORD PATRICK said...

Same story! I was made to feel that my "lower regions" front and back were somehow "unclean"! And when I went to boarding school the priest in charge told us: "Only evil men masturbate"! WOW! I thought that it was the most wonderful experience that I had ever known! Hugs, Patrick

SteveXS said...

Great post! Like I've always said, what's natural is best.

Jean said...

Guess what guys, we women heard the same thing! We got the same early feelings you all did but just not so obvious.
Your mothers weren't saying anything to you they weren't saying to us, go back and put something on that is decent!!
Have we come any further? Women are criticized just for breastfeeding, still! There is nothing more natural, but many consider it indecent!

SickoRicko said...

Interesting post.

whkattk said...

@ MFP - Mon ami, I believe, though, that the size of one's male equipment is attributable to one's male lineage. So my big cock is supplied by my father's side of the family - at least he did one thing nice for me and my brother. LOL.

Well, #8 - possibly; #'s 10 and 11 - I don't think mom ever witnessed my boners like that. Though she did tell me once that she saw plenty of my morning wood.

whkattk said...

@ Jean - that's the advantage women have over us - we become aroused and there is no hiding it! LOL.

I understand girls experience the same feelings, but do they get taunted and teased and admonished about their equipment? They get to be so proud of their breasts...the first bra, etc. Yet boys are told to hide any trace of bulge.

ROSALINDA JERRI said...

Indian Nude Hot Desi 3x Sex Xxx 3gp mp4 HD Video Free Download


»------------ European Sex (137)


»------------ Cumshot Sex (107)


»----------- Blowjob Sex (311)


»------------ Hot Sites (Ads)


»------------ Sex In Office (762)


»------------ Teen Sex (277)+7


»------------- Pornstar Sex (910)+10


»------------- Lesbian Sex (223)+22


»------------ Hardcore Sex (386)


»------------- European Sex (137)


»------------ Cumshot Sex (107)


»------------- Blowjob Sex (311)


»------------- Big Tits Sex (334)


»------------- Hot Sites (Ads)


»------------- Sex In Office (762)


»------------- Teen Sex (277)+7


»------------- Pornstar Sex (910)+10


»------------- Lesbian Sex (223)+22