Friday, September 20, 2019

Retaining Erotic Energy

From the Mail Bag:

"Been reading your blog for a long time. Have a question. What does it mean to retain erotic energy? WTF is it supposed to do?"
Well, I'm sure some of my Faithful Readers can answer that much better than I can. But, I'll take a stab at it. Hopefully, they'll correct any of my errors.
Building up and retaining erotic energy through masturbation is, as I noted, withholding ejaculation. No, not edging. Withholding. Maybe you enjoy orgasm, but you don't cum.




You can liken that building up of energy to back when you were (as the saying goes) young, dumb, and full of cum. Remember how your body would feel when you were really horny? How energy coursed through you and you had a tough time sitting still? You needed to move, do something physical.

Now, think about the chemical changes which take place after you shoot. You feel relaxed and, perhaps, sleepy. Men do sleep better after an ejaculation with the energy expelled.


Well, by having orgasms but not ejaculating, you are able to keep that energy at a peak. Hope that gives you a better understanding. But, I also hope some of my Faithful Readers can add to that and correct it where I've stated something in error.

Readers?

11 comments:

SickoRicko said...

I can't add anything, but I must say that your choice of pix is very hot!

Xersex said...

nothing to say. sorry!
happy week end!

Anonymous said...

Not sure about "having orgasms but not ejaculating" cos i've not learnt how to do that yet. But, for me, to "retain erotic energy" means making sure i have some good play-time with my cock and balls every day to get a really good hard-on, sometimes getting close to an orgasm but not cumming. So i get to feel really "turned on" daily, until the day that i decide to release all that built-up erotic charge by having a long masturbation session, slowly bringing myself up to a fantastic blast-off.

AOM SoulFood said...

HORNYFIED! : ) I like your explanation. I do know that my most enjoyable wanks come from slowly building up that energy by taking my time and incorporating my whole body. I hope you and your are well and having fun. Wishing y'all a Phabulicious Weekend. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

JeanWM said...

All I know on the subject is, have a happy weekend! Hugs and bisous!

Fullmoonma said...

ou've got it!

When I masturbate and do multiple dry orgasms I can feel the change in consciousness as my body comes alive and fills with energy. I'll feel washes of heat. Energy tingling in my sex chakra and radiating out. I'll feel my cock get super thick and stiff as the orgasmic peaks. After a few dozen oregasms I'll feel fully charged and my cock will not longer get as stiff and I'll know it's time to take a break.

In the Body Electric Taoist erotic massage ritual (which can also be a solosex experience) conscious breathwork concentrating on breathing in is combined with intense genital stroking using a variety of strokes but avoiding the "pump handle" jack-off strokes. All this fils the body with breath and erotic energy which gets resolved with a "big draw" or breath orgasm when ejaculation seems close: clenching all the muscles in the body for 20 seconds and releasing into relaxation, leaving the body charged.

These techniques are particularly useful as you age. I first learned them in my 50's.

Anonymous said...

Hello, my bro. Yes a normal question at that. Retaining erotic energy. This has all to do with your sexual energy from the root Chakra. As my bro said, it is a building up, preform before the ejaculation. It's natures way of saying, it's time to plant your seed. But! As the ancient Taoist's discovered, they devised techniques to prolong this energy and to store it in the solar plexus for later use. There are a few thing's you should know though. Controle of orgasm is a complex form of mind, body, and degree of energy. 1. Mind: you feel this energy in the body, thus move your arms, legs, etc to spread it around. Rub your limbs and all over to spread it. Also, do this mentally. 1. Body control: Has to do with practicing Kegels. The muscles around the sexual organs and the base root chakra. you must master this to hold back your seed when you feel it rising. 3. Breathing: very important to have breath control, and to belly breath. 4. Drawing this energy up to the crown, where it will be seated and let back down into the abdomen area. again all these things can be learned, but it takes time and perseverance. It is also about having pleasure.I can talk further but there is too much to cover, here. On the net is enough material over all this, but fortunately for you. If my bro from Whack Attack does not mind, you can visit my blog. It's all there in one blog, plus more.Feel free to pop over for a look. Your's Taotrojan. www.taotrojan.blogspot.com Or find the link here on this blog.
Here is a link to my index page.Index page Mindful Masturbation Technique,s
https://taotrojan.blogspot.com/p/welcome-to-index-page-mindful_24.html
Index page Mindful Masturbation General
https://taotrojan.blogspot.com/p/index-page-mindful-masturbation.html
Enjoy, have fun

Hot guys said...

Just playin' around, huh?

Boys will be boys :)

Anonymous said...

I don't think I know how to have an orgasm and not ejaculate. Would be awesome to do, but not sure how to achieve that.

whkattk said...

@ Anon - Read the comments left by fullmoonma and taotrojan - they are both VERY qualified to speak to on this subject.

Stevenslave58 said...

I guess that i am not totally addicted to porn because i get horny several times a day a work. I work at a Farm Store and those young country boys in there tight jeans and cowboy boots are a pure torment! The Construction guys also in tight jeans tees and work boots do it for me too. I get hard a couple three times a day and maybe once or twice a week i have to go to the mens room and get it off! Thanks. getting me to think about things has shown me that i'm not as far gone as i thought! Peace, love and happiness, Namaste'.