A CV-19 issue for you.
"Our grandson stayed with us through the lock down to help us out. We have a one-bedroom and so he had to sleep on the couch. Once things started to open up we thought we would be okay and he went home. But now the virus is making a comeback and he's planning to come back.
The problem if you can call it that is he sleeps in the nude. My wife gets up in the morning and the sheet is on the floor. Then the wash. It was tough trying to stop her from saying anything to him about the fact he doesn't wear underwear and keep her from telling him he should wear something to sleep in. But I managed.
She wants to have a talk with him about those things if he comes to help out again. What do I say to get her to keep her mouth shut?"
If she insists on opening her mouth, though I would hope he wouldn't be, she risks embarrassing him. But all she needs to know is that if he finds freeballing more comfortable it's his choice. He doesn't need to explain himself further.
As far as the morning wood goes, what is she hoping to accomplish? He doesn't need to apologize. It's a normal, natural function he has no control over. But, I hope your grandson knows enough that he should be able to smile, shrug, and tell her that. You should've already told her it's not good to wear anything for sleeping. You don't, right? Right?? Because this situation can cause damage.
And, if she doesn't understand morning boners after - how long have you been married? - well, then, that's really on you.
If his morning boners bother her, or if she thinks he'll be embarrassed, she needs only to put the sheet over him and go on about making the coffee, or whatever.
Bottom line: A guy's hard-on is only something that's mentioned if you plan on doing something with it.
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It very rare I sleep with anything on. I always sleep nude, but if I'm at someone's else home I try to make sure the cover is on. Not everyone is comfortable with seeing a nude person. Now if they don't care...….
I don't disagree with a single thing whkattk said. But, there appear to be several layers here.
When I hypothetically put myself in this same situation, I could see my wife having a similar type reaction. My wife isn't a prude and in fact can be a total wildcat at times. No....this is more about behaving in an acceptable manner when visiting someone else's home.
For example, it's perfectly normal to have a b/m, but maybe the person visiting your house should be expected to close the bathroom door while having one.
Having said that, it seems the grandson is coming to help you out in a time of need...not to freeload off you. So, maybe a greater appreciation and tolerance should be extended to your grandson with his sleeping attire or lack thereof. It's not like he's coming in drunk and puking all over the living room carpet.
I think you and your wife should have a private, thorough talk about this and see if she can just chill out a bit. She needs to look at this from other perspectives. You could run the risk of making the grandson uncomfortable to the point he'll leave....or it might alter/damage your future relationship with him. Is this nudity question worth that?
I can't agree with you on this - he isn't in his home, and his grandmother doesn't enjoy looking at his cock - can't say that I blame her personally. Buy a pair of XXXL boxers and wear them to bed,or stay home. Every now and then you need to tell kids "no".
interesting
What would she not say if the guy was Irish and therefore naked all day long under his kilt which is more likely to lift than pants to fall?
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
I wish you a wonderful day and a happy weekend.
That's a tough one. I'd like him to be more mindful of her sensibilities.
Guess I'm a bit old fashioned in some respects. He's a guest in someone's home sleeping in a common area. I think he should have mentioned his preferred sleeping attire, or lack thereof, in the beginning. Common courtesy. This would be different of course if he had his own room. Now, the grandfather should pull the grandson aside and politely let him know that sleeping nude makes grandma uncomfortable when she finds him uncovered in the morning. The grandson's age was never mentioned, but just speak to him as an adult and maybe they'll arrive at a compromise or decide nothing needs to change. I'm all for swaying free, but if the situation was reversed, I shouldn't feel uncomfortable in my own home. What's wrong with him wearing a large pair of boxers or basket ball shorts?
I think you covered it very well. There really is nothing else to add.
And who is more reluctant to talk about sex? Ever?
Hugs and bisous.
Hmmm... if this was a sitcom, that could be an on-going bit.
Grandma walks into living room. Sees grandson's morning wood. "Oh, sheesh, Tyrone. Put a sheet on it... at least then it will look like you have a ghost sitting on your lap."
As for the washing of the sheets? What kind of stains are we talking about? I am available for laundry service.
Have a lovely weekend.
Again, he is a visitor and may need to limit his behavior based on the hosts’ rules.
He might be given a nightshirt, not the knit type but the old fashioned cloth. They tend to be freer
You're wrong all the way down the line. It's HER apartment. The kid covers up out of respect and that's the end of it. Grandpa had better speak to the boy.
Well, first off, the virus never really abated, just our government decided the rich people happy index was more important than, you know, living.
Secondly, he's a guest. That changes the dynamic. If you could give him his own room, that would be one thing, but you can't. Hell, even entertaining guests, I wear at least a robe.
You do, however, have one option. You can talk to him yourself. Maybe he takes care of things in the bathroom a couple times before going to sleep?
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