"I seem to remember you writing that you are able to jerk off even though you have ed because of your illness. Is that true that you can cum without a hardon? I can't seem to and my nuts ache something awful."
I think any guy can relate to what's commonly called Blue Balls, and I know from experience how downright painful it can be. The sensation of fullness can get to be overwhelming.
Yes, it most certainly is possible to masturbate. Yes, you can cum. It takes patience, though. The cock is very slow to respond and it's best to concentrate your stimulation efforts on the most sensitive spots: The head,
and the Frenulum - that little stretch of skin on the underside of the shaft just below the head.
A semi-hardon is what you'll be dealing with.
Allow it to rest against your abdomen and use your fingertips to glide over and around the upper half - a sort of frottage with yourself.
I find that lube helps.
You can squeeze the very base of the shaft to increase the hardness.
The interesting part is that the closer you get to orgasm, the harder you'll get. Just before I cum I've achieved a full boner.
Don't get discouraged if it doesn't work right away. Practice makes perfect.
In the meantime, you can help relieve the aching balls which is caused by a build-up of blood and fluid in the groin called vasocongestion. Years ago Men's Health magazine suggested a couple of solutions to Blue Balls when ejaculation is not possible. Lean against a wall with your body at an approximate 45-degree angle. Pushing away - a form of push-ups, I guess -
will place pressure in the groin and help the fluid to drain. All you want is to feel tension in the groin. Once the blood and fluid have been released the pain will subside.
Yep, just like everything down there tenses and tightens up when you cum.
In the meantime, enjoy the weekend by trying.
Maybe some readers might have more ideas. Readers?
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i asked my brother why guys jerk off all th etime and he said because its important for them to keep things cleaned out that's not really true right?
- jennyH
I think you covered things pretty well. Have a great weekend!
@Jenny - Yes, it is true. Just like staying hydrated and peeing helps avoid UTIs, ejaculations...well, I'll save it for Tuesday's post.
It is most certainly possible to masturbate, and yes we can cum… by looking at your beautiful pics.
Have a wondrous weekend, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Hugs and bisous.
I did have a vasectomy back in 1982 so NEVER any sperm can come out from my testicules the normal way and NEVER did I had such a «blue balls» pain.
That is a myth to say you need to «empty» your seminal gland.
For the hard ons, as I'm 70yo and have diabetes, my erections aren't that hard anymore but with the help of a good gay porn video it will trigger it when I mastrubate and have a better hardon when I am to ejaculate.
I am also uncut which helps me to have good stimulations.
I hate using lubricant because it's too soft and I loose the feeling of the good frottage sensations.
But this is to say that ejaculations and masturbating are so differente depends of each men.
Tomorrow will be the 20th anniversary of 9/11. Rest in peace all those fine rescue workers, the policemen, the brave firemen who ran into buildings while people were fleeing.
Hugs and bisous.
Don't hesitate to use other methods in combination with the good advice already given - I take 10 mg of Cialis every day to encourage blood flow into my cock and often use a not too tight cock ring to help retain hardness. Also I find with a multiple dry orgasm practice I don't get blue balls at this point in my life. That could be because there's less fluid being produced or because the little dry orgasms release some of it - I do get drops of pre-come leaking out of my cock after many of the orgasms.
Never experienced something like this, but yes... 🤷♂️
Do what you gotta do, if you want to get there 😏
I think that if there is someone playing with you, the reaction of the muscles and the shots will be even stronger and more liberating!
Sent via email, I thought this was worth posting here for everyone. - Pat
This subject I am now at 82, well versed in. A Radical prostatectomy 12 years ago, all but eliminated what used to be good stiff erections. Now indeed climaxes still happen, with increased stimulation of my half hard dick as you suggested, but no discharges, no cum!, The climaxes are as intense as ever, no mess to clean up, a bit of porn helps a lot. Julle
@ Jean - Rough watching all the tributes. But the 60 Minutes one I thought was the best. The wife made a good observation, though: No one seems to have interviewed the 9-1-1 operators/dispatchers. It couldn't have been easy for them, either. Hugs and bisous.
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