First and foremost, I must apologize to any readers who tried to find the MEL article yesterday. It turned out to be part of her newsletter she emails to subscribers. Then, I had already deleted the email. Mea culpa!
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10 years. Ten flipping years. That's how long I've been posting here at Big Whack Attack. They've gone by fast. Though 2020 seems to be never-ending. 2,462 posts have received just shy of 14,000,000 views and 20,145 comments. I never thought so many people would be reading, commenting, and asking questions.
Early on, part of the purpose was to educate and defend the Brotherhood of Men. As Reader Adam commented on Built-In Partner:
"I appreciate the post, but the letter-writer asked a specific question: "How do I convince her there's nothing wrong with it?" Your answer seems to be "dump her". Maybe it could be more nuanced? How about educating her through this website, pointing to posts where guys share their non-gay experiences of mutual masturbation? How about giving her reassurance that two guys helping each other out may be a sign of brotherhood and not a romantic relationship? If those approaches don't put a dent in her bucket of concern, then indeed it's time to let it go."
Indeed. For the men who masturbate together it really is a bonding experience. It's sharing a common activity they enjoy. It's acknowledging a brotherhood.
Men need to get more involved in promoting a healthy, positive body image. We shouldn't be forced to hide what we've been born with, we shouldn't be forced into embarrassment by how it functions, we shouldn't be forced into denying we enjoy it.
It's good for you. It's healthy physically and mentally.
And being healthy and remaining healthy means paying attention to your body.
The cock is your Health Barometer.
In general terms, it tells you if something isn't quite right. Not getting those normal boners? It's time to get a physical. A complete physical.
I really appreciate each and every Follower, every comment, every email, every friendship that has developed.

Thanks for reading all these years.