Lewd and Disgusting / Beautiful and Natural

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Or beautiful and natural?

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Cock Size / Dad Writes Again

Cock size is so all-important to us men. Straight dudes have such a tough time in acknowledging that they do indeed check out the competition. They are so afraid the interest in glancing at the other cock(s) in the room is going to be misinterpreted. Guys! Come on. Really, it's no different than checking out the physical attributes of the members of an opposing sports team. So, the next time you are at the gym, or standing at a urinal, and another guy glances over there is no reason to get upset. Let him look. Then, go ahead, look at his. You know you want to. You'll both either be envious or thankful. But chances are 99% he's not any more interested than you are in anything but seeing how his own cock measures up to the competition.

I've had quite the response to the guy who wrote about his ex walking in on his sons' circle jerk. As he feared, the ex is ready for battle. She's filed for another custody hearing.

"...So, it appears I'll be needing to call my lawyer again. My oldest says he'd live on the street or go to jail before he goes back to his mother. He's ready to fight to get his brother out of there bexuase 'She'll fuck him up dad. She'll fuck with his head until he thinks his dick is evil and should be cut off.' No doubt.

The boys are 18 months apart. The oldest just turned 16. I've managed to talk to both of them to explain they've done nothing wrong or abnormal. I really appreciate your support and the suggestions from other readers. One commenter last week said I introduce both of my sons to your blog. I cuold get in a lot of trouble I guess but I've done it anyway."

Well, Dad, I think it's okay since you've given your sons permission. I sure thank you for your confidence in my blog to be educational for them. It's my goal, anyway. They've got a lot to learn about their bodies.

And there is no reason they can't learn together

And share the information together.

As far as I'm concerned, you've done the right thing. It sounds as if they've both got a normal, healthy interest in their functioning equipment. They've got nothing to hide and nothing to be ashamed of. They're male

They get boners

It feels good to stroke them

Jacking off makes them 100% normal

And I hope you'll keep me (and my readers) current as things unfold.

Psychology of Cock Size

So, we now know that within anthropologic terms that size has always been a determining factor in women choosing a mate. That, of course, transferred right on over into the brains of us guys - - in the early days of humankind we saw who got accepted by the females. And, of course, at that time in history it was only about copulating to populate. The biggest cock won.

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According to my doc, who is a geneticist and biomedic, size and shape are very much decided by genetics. I never saw my father naked but, as you all know I have first hand knowledge of my brother's cock. At 10" women would shy away from it. 

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Mine, though still above average at 7-1/2", is smaller than my brother's due to childhood illnesses (according to my doctor) and I'm quite satisfied with it.

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It's very common for guys to want to know how they measure up to other men. What's average? How do they measure up to that standard? And, a lot of men whose cocks hover around the average see guys at the gym

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or the guy standing next to them taking a piss

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with bigger ones, and then wish their own was larger. (And, yes, we look. It's okay, straight dudes, you can admit it. We all look.) It's quite normal, because it's part of our anthropological-psychological make-up: Size matters. Bigger is better.

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With the knowledge science has brought to our doorstep, no man should ever be ashamed of what he's been born with. We all understand the desire to be bigger. But, be proud of it, no matter how big it is.

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Be proud of it, and enjoy it.

Cock Size in Anthropology (Size Matters)

Thank you all for your best wishes. The appointment went well...now we wait for lab results.

So many times, I'm at a loss on what to post. But, we've had this hanging out there for a while now.

Cock Size. 

We really are obsessed with it. We'll use all sorts of things to show how big our cocks are.

Some will even help perpetuate myth

But, why? Why are we so hell-bent on knowing how well we measure up?

So, I've been doing a bit of digging around, looking into the anthropological ideas as well as the current psychology of this. Turns out, anthropologists theorize that it's always been a concern. But, it was the females who drove the issue. Surprised? If you've watched any nature show or documentary, you shouldn't be. In most species, it is the female who decides, she makes the ultimate selection in regards to sexual partners based on what she believed to provide the best outcome.

And, according to an article in The Guardian, it was through the mechanism of sexual selection that will have driven increased penis size and altered structure:

"This unique adaptation is thought to have been selected through female mate choice, and by the time Homo erectus arrived on the scene, the hominid penis was significantly longer, fatter and more bendy than our ape cousins'. It has even been theorised that bipedalism evolved in humans to allow the fashionably new, larger, flexible penis to be displayed to discerning females.

Women are as aware as men that to build a stable relationship you need trust, shared interests and the ability to keep each other amused. But a woman is not going to 'put the size of a man's cock right out of her mind', because she can't. Females have an evolved interest in the size of a man's penis, which has been sexually selected for its size and shape."

So, the thought that men were obsessed with the size of their cocks long before women turns out to be false.

Why would women care? The longer penis is able to go deeper when delivering sperm. But that discounts the velocity with with it is delivered.

Cock size is so embedded in our psyches that it will always be an issue for us.

We'll probably always enjoy gazing at the larger ones.

And always wish ours to be bigger than it is