Comfy, Healthy, and Functioning

It's the weirdest thing... Bright and sunny can turn into a downpour within an hour or so. The clouds rolled in with heavy winds and rain - and blew tiles off the roof. Monsoons are a bit of freaky nature.

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I have to thank all you wonderful readers for the suggestions on Monday's post regarding briefs for the guy who prefers to dress "up."

The writer expressed his thanks:

"Hi Pat: GREAT to hear from you and thanks for your help in keeping the bf happily in place. And Stiffies is having a sale, even.  

I'll keep reading to see if your readers have more suggestions.

THANKS!"

That's what Big Whack Attack is all about. Helping folks understand the workings of the male apparatus, to keep them comfy,

healthy,

 

and functioning as intended.

Thank you Readers!

Manhood Paying the Price?

I got a late start today... And, the meteorologist lied. The clouds are rolling in for another lovely, blustery day.

Got a letter from a guy asking about the truth damage from sleeping clothed below the waist.

"I'm curious about something. I want to know if it is bad for your penis to sleep in briefs because of the pressure on nocturnal erections. I heard on Google from several sources that even if your underwear is ludicrously tight you won't have to worry about your manhood paying the price/that it can't cause ED. I want to know what you think though and how you know it. I sleep either naked or so my penis has full room to grow."

Folks, I've said it before. Sleeping in briefs can damage the cock. Sleeping in anything below the waist is not good for the penis. Males can get as many as 11 erections during sleep - mostly during REM, when the body is completely relaxed.

Whether he wears tight, tight briefs or loose pajamas, the erect penis can get trapped in an awkward position. Then, if he rolls over on it the Tunica can crack. The Tunica is the fibrous sheath which runs the length of the shaft surrounding the Corpus Cavernosa, the sponge-like tubes that fill up with blood to form the erection. The Tunica provides the wall that limit the Cavernosa; without it, the penis would look like a fat balloon. 

The injury can be slight, it can be major. If can be painful or not painful at all. Some men don't even realize they've damaged their penis until they notice a bend in their erections which wasn't present before.

The result is not necessarily ED. But, the result is a bent erection. There's a big difference. A bend in the erect penis is called Peyronies Disease. This is actually caused by the scar tissue (a plaque) which forms as the Tunica heals. Depending on the severity of the bend, it can be painful and/or impossible to have penetrative sexual intercourse. There are even TV commercials about this now, steering guys to a website advertising a prescription drug to help men overcome the problem. However, that will only help with minor bends - major ones will require surgery to remove the scarring/plaque.

Avoid damage. Avoid a bent cock.

  

Males should sleep naked.

For Men Who Dress "Up"

When a guy feels good, he looks good. Comfort is key, though. And comfort in the crotch is tantamount. Endless adjustments can be bothersome. Until we find that perfect fit.

"Hi Whack Attack Guy: My boy friend (for a reason unknown to me) likes to have his dick held upright (instead of flopped down over his balls) by his underwear. He found a line that suited him made by Hanes, but that style has been discontinued. Do you, or our fellow whackers, have a specific recommendation for some briefs that will do the job?

THANKS!"

The search for comfort can seem daunting. It depends on how you dress: Up, down, to the left, or to the right. (Which is why a good tailor will always ask.)

 My own search took years and a lot of briefs relegated to the bottom of the drawer. I finally settled on these because I was able to get a pouch that wouldn't squash the goods. But they wouldn't provide "up" support.

Now, that I wear 501's all the time, there's a drawer filled with briefs that never see the light of day. Freeball is my choice.

And, there are surprisingly very few adjustments needed during the day (mostly when getting into my truck). I settle things in upon buttoning up and I'm good to go.

Anyway, I did a search and came up with two different styles your boyfriend might like. Both are a bit pricey - but the comfort is worth it; in my opinion, anyway. The first are from Tommy John. It appears that the pouch is designed for the guy who prefers to dress "up" and still provides good support for The Boys.

The second, called Stiffies, also manages to provide for those spontaneous boners we get during the day; there's room for comfortable growth - whether you prefer left or right - without having to push the cock around.

Readers, any suggestions for the man who prefers to dress "up"?

Reason to Feel Guilty?

Another nasty monsoon hit us last night. Spent the last two hours scooping out the pool. Now, as long as we aren't hit with another one, it will be a nice, relaxing weekend.

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Meanwhile, this landed in my email inbox:

"My brother bought a lakehouse in NY and invited family to visit over the weekend. I volunteered to go back to the house and make dinner. I'm out to my family and friends, everyone is cool with it. While I was showering in the outdoor shower along the side of the house, I feel a body press up against my back, a hard-on pressed to my ass, a finger presses against my lips and I hear "Shhhh..." while a hand grabs my dick and starts stroking it. The shower is built like an "L" and there's no door so I didn't hear him come in. This nephew is 19 and only about 5 years younger than me. He's got a girlfriend and everything. He says it doesn't matter, they're both "poly." Then he says he's "waited years for this."
He gives me this awesome handjob then tells me to expect him that night because he needs "to suck that cock." I told him it wasn't really good idea, but I wake around 1 in the morning with my dick in his mouth and getting harder by the second.
It was good, I enjoyed it. I even reciprocated. He's the one who initiated. So why do I feel so guilty?"

 Were you wrong to allow him to finish jacking you off in the shower? Or returning the favor of the blow job? I don't know. You're both adults.

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Perhaps you feel guilty because we're taught throughout our lives that sex with a relative is wrong. Consensual incest has been deemed wrong mainly because centuries ago people realized it resulted in child deformities. You and your nephew don't have that to worry about.

If the chances are slim you'll have another encounter with this nephew, put it out of your mind. He'll go back to his girlfriend with his fantasy fulfilled and all will be well. You'll both have to be cautious at future family gatherings - try to keep the guilty expressions to a minimum when he gives you those knowing smiles, or if he says anything that hints at what you shared. Otherwise his parents might find out and you may have hell to pay.

What say you Readers?

Does he have reason to feel guilty?