Keep Learning

To expound on yesterday's post. Keep learning. You could think of watching a partner masturbate as a Continuing Education class on men and their cocks.

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Because as we age, we guys require more stimulation. And different stimulation to get an erection and maintain it that goes beyond needing variety of place or partner.

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Over the years testosterone levels slowly drop making our boners droop.

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That means it takes us longer to get a decent hard-on.

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And it requires more constant sensation to keep it solid.

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So watch. And learn.
And have a wonderful weekend!

Have You Thought to Ask?

Ladies, ladies, ladies.... I'm loving your emails.

"Okay, I get why he jerks off every day. But I need to watch, huh? I'd love to. But, how for God sakes? If he's in the shower and I walk in, he turns his back to hide his dick. If he's on the bed, he rolls over or yanks the blanket up to cover up."

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Well, have you thought to ask? In our younger days, a buddy of mine told me his wife just came out and asked if she could watch sometime. He pushed his pants to the floor and gave her a demonstration right then and there.

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You could very quietly slide into the room. Before he notices you, try saying in a soft voice, so you don't scare him too much (otherwise his cock might wilt), "God, that's beautiful. Don't stop."

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He'll be sheepish, but if you approach the bed, push back the covers, and take his hand and place it on his boner he should get the message. Restart him; he should get comfortable with it in a few minutes. I mean, there must have been plenty of times, when you're having a good roll in the hay, you've witnessed him wrap a fist around his cock. Maybe that's the time you choose to tell him you want to watch.

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It's such a great learning experience, too.

"Girl, Get a Clue"

This email showed up overnight in response to yesterday's post.

"Is that woman kidding??? I love it when my husband jerks off. I bought a chair for the bedroom just so I can see the show. I love to watch him, the way he slides his hands along his body, the way he fondles himself, the way he lifts and massages his nuts. When he gets down to the actual stroking of his dick it's amazing to see. Especially if he's in a playful mood. He teases me with suggestive smiles, and he takes it even slower. He's had sessions where it's taken him close to two hours to cum. To see the expression on his face and the way his hips thrust and his back arches when he cums makes him look so beautiful. Sometimes he'll wag a finger at me to join him and the sex is incredible. Girl, get a clue. Watch him and enjoy the show. You might get lucky and he'll ask you to join him."

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Ah, a woman who gets it. Sometimes we guys want to be left to ourselves; sometimes we'd love to have you join us. If only you ladies can get over the feelings of jealousy, or thinking you're inadequate and that we don't desire you simply because we take matters in hand.

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As a friend of ours once told my wife many, many years ago: "Guys jerk off. It's a fact of life. Get over yourself."

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It's an accurate statement because our masturbation has nothing to do with our feelings for you.

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Something to Celebrate

The second part of yesterday's post was, partially, a response to two different emails from readers. One, asking why guys jerk off so much. The second, from a woman pretty much asking the same thing.

"My husband works in construction and comes home everyday and goes in to shower. Then he typically lays on the bed and naps until I tell him supper is ready. He either jacks off in the shower or does it when he plops down on the bed after the shower. We still have plenty of sex, so it's not like I'm complaining about that. But, why does he jack off so much?"

Well, I've answered the first so many times it should be an auto-reply. The second, is simple yet complicated.

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Masturbation helps us relax after a hard day. Heck, we may not even cum (thought that's probably rare). It's a way to drown out the world, forget about the problems that have plagued us during our day; it's a way to unwind. It's "me time."

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Guys jack off in the shower, partly because the boner pops up with the washing of the cock and balls, 

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and partly because it saves us the effort of cleaning up.

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No clean-up is also one of the reasons we like jacking off outside.

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But, overall, though you didn't say how old you are, I'm guessing you're both still young. Your husband's libido is high. In our youth, we guys could cum several times a day - every day.

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If you are, say, in your thirties or older, it's likely that his testosterone levels are on the higher end of the scale. That he gets erections so easily - and enjoys them - is great.

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That's something to celebrate.