Wednesday, June 6, 2018

Now Called 'Buddy Bating'

"I spent an evening with a buddy watching TV and bullshitting. We end up facing one another, legs intertwined on the couch and stroking dick. Afterwards we both thought it was the coolest thing we'd ever done. It seems that we're closer now than ever before. We're more at ease. I mean, we talk about stuff we never did before. Is that weird or what?"

Such perfect timing. Your question allows me to point everyone to MEL magazine a second time this week for an article on just such goings-on:

The results of what is now called 'Buddy Bating' is not weird at all. In fact, more and more straight men are finding the same results. A shared activity and personalities that mesh bring us closer to others. it's how we form friendships and close bonds. Straight guys admit to feeling a closer bond to buddies they've masturbated with. Honesty and openness about erections and masturbation allows guys to become...well, more open and honest with one another about all manner of things.

There's nothing weird about enjoying yourselves in a shared interest.


SickoRicko said...

That was a very interesting article; I especially liked the word “heteroflexible”.

Xersex said...

no problem at all!!!

AOM SoulFood said...

Sharing what we love to do is a great bonding experience. I hope you and yours are doing well and having fun, bro. Wishing you a superduper day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

Patrick said...

Yes! How our world is changing! I suppose these this have always happened, but now men are opening up about them. Torrential rain yesterday, but the sun is shining today!

French Patrick said...

I admit I am often taken aback by reading the question of a reader who would have known your answer in advance if he had read your blog somewhat more!
Or it was maybe a test for knowing if you've changed your mind?

On the other hand the article of Mel magazine, which he allowed you to introduce, is interesting, even if the writer is lazy to the point of giving only the meaning of the two last letters of FYFF.
But I am maybe wrong, for example if I was the only one who ignored that the two first letters stand for Fuck Yeah.

Love, hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.

Jean WM said...

You really hope people are figuring out that what they do in private with friends, is their business. Shame it’s taken so long and from this message many folks still struggle with "is this normal?" The answer is probably, YES! Thanks Pat, bisous to French Patrick.

Anonymous said...

Nothing new under the sun. Look at how many men responded that they'd masturbated with another man on Kinsey's survey. And how many of the next two generations of men thought it unfair that masturbating with another guy "counted" toward the scale.

whkattk said...

@ Anon - You make an excellent point! Because jacking off with a friend, two friends, or even a group of guys means only one thing: You are a sexual being and enjoy mutual masturbation.