Monday, June 25, 2018

Sad Actually

I'm back. Not that I wanted to return home but, at the same time, it's good to be in my own bed again. We had a good time. The water in the Gulf of Mexico was a beautiful 87F. We had great thunderstorms (which we don't see often in the desert), we had beautiful sunny days (which we get almost daily in the desert), we had balmy days with slight trade winds (which we never get in the desert), we had a couple of days of high humidity (ugh!) which we sometimes have, though many outside of the desert would laugh at what we call high humidity).

I did come to one realization. The biggest difference between a nude beach and a gay nude beach: Beach boners. The gays don't worry about hiding them; the straight dudes do. Though the MEL article stated correctly that a nude beach is not about sex, it's about being natural in nature. The sun and wind, and water on the body; the whole body. But, at the same time, it's kind of sad, actually.

Men are still made to feel erections are something they must hide, rather than a natural physiological function - which most of the time has absolutely nothing to do with sex.

All proving that the straight community still has a lot to learn from the gay community.


AOM SoulFood said...

WELCOME HOME, BRO! So good to see you back. From the photos I see it was a splendid vacation! : ) I wish folks would just over their difficulty with nature. So what if a guy gets a boner - if you want to look, look - if you don't, don't - not a very important issue that some folks make a big deal about. I don't know - some folks just got some learnin' to do. : ) Glad to have you back. Have a fabulous bonerific day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

Xersex said...

wellCUMmed back!!!

Patrick said...

Welcome back! Really missed you! So pleased that you had a "good" time away. Great post as always. Knew you would want the "door handles"! Very cold here for us - 7C most mornings. I see the eye specialist today - trouble with the right eye.

mistress maddie said...

I sure hope you had a good time dear and all is well with you. The closet nude beach to me is Sandy Hook in NJ. I was there once. It was alright. Did see boners your right. But not on the straight beach. On the gay beach, the gays are currently up in arms as the park reserve did away with allowing people to bring tents. Apparently their was a lot of hooking up and sex going on . All one had to do was leave the door unzipped and a horny guy could go in. It's apparently causing a ruckus.

French Patrick said...

Happy to see you back, my dear friend. I hope (and I think so) that you consider the fact of rejoining your buddies as one advantage besides the fact of being in your own bed again.
The biggest difference between a nude beach and a gay nude beach is the word gay. On a nude beach we may meet gays but there are also straight men, women and children, therefore it's easy to understand that the gays feel more at ease, more "at home", on a gay nude beach, and thus more free to flaunt proudly their erected penises.
Love, hugs and bisous my darlings Jean and Pat.

Jean WM said...

Welcome back! So glad you had a great time, that’s what it’s all about! I wonder if at beaches outside the US, people don’t have the same difficulties that folks here do.

And maybe that’s the real secret, you can only take care of how you think and do the daily educating here.
Hugs and bisous Pat, and to our dear friend French Patrick who will surely weigh in.

SickoRicko said...

Glad you're back and that you had a good time! Can't say that we see many boners at the nude beach where we go, but once in a while.