Friday, June 8, 2018

Who Owed Who an Apology?

"A long-term relationship recently ended and to make ends meet I rented out one of the extra rooms. Ground rules were set ahead of time - clothing optional unless there are guests, keep the place clean, etc, etc. Day One this guy comes out of his bedroom wearing nothing but morning wood. Hung like a pony doesn't do him justice. I made a joke, we laughed, then talked about how tough it is for him to get into a relationship because women run when they see his dick.
Anyway, last night I came home from work and he's sprawled out on the couch stroking that humongous cock. When he finished spewing the biggest load of jizz I'd ever seen I thought "Holy shit..." You know when someone asks, "Did I say that out loud?" Yeah, it was one of those moments. 
He scrambles for his pants then starts yelling at me that I should've let him know I was home before I walked into the living room. I apologized. But, really, did I owe him an apology? He was the one laying there butt naked and jerking off in a common area."

First, sorry for the loss of your relationship. It's tough no matter how or why it ended. You set ground rules and he agreed to them. But what ground rules? You're two single guys living in the same house, and it seems as if you're both trying to live in denial. Boners should be expected. So should masturbation. My personal opinion? The more relaxed about it you are, the better.

When I lived in the dorms I told every one of my room mates that no one needed to hide. Have at it, it's not going to bother me at all. If I'm having a session, stay, leave, join in for all I care.
You and your new tenant need to set ground rules that work for you both. If it embarrasses him to be "found out," 

then he needs to restrict his stroking to where he'll have more privacy.

But, bottom line: It's your house, you shouldn't be made to feel as if you need to announce your presence every time you enter a room.
Readers, opinions?


mistress maddie said...

If your unsure someone will walk in while jacking off, then keep it private. Sounds to me he was just asking to be walked in on, to show off that huge cock.

He'd really hate me. I'd walked in, see that that thing and probably started blowing him.

Have a good weekend my friend!!!! I missed you too.

Patrick said...

Interesting situation! Yes! They do need to agree on a few things! Have a great weekend! Cold, wet, windy, winter weather here!

AOM SoulFood said...

I agree with you, bro. It's his house. Either have it understood that wanking goes on and it's not an issue or else the tenant needs to wank in his bedroom if he doesn't want to be seen stroking. Wishing you and yours a fabulous weekend. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

SickoRicko said...

The homeowner was not the one that needed to apologize.

French Patrick said...

Exhibitionist when he goes out of his bedroom and offended when he is found out on the couch? Maybe a case of cyclothymia, if your reader does not tell tall tales?
On the other hand, what we feel differs depending on whether we show deliberately our nudity or we are unexpectedly surprised not only nude but wanking and (after a moment of voyeurism from your reader) ejaculating. But even taking that into consideration the reaction of his tenant is at least excessive.

Have a great weekend, my darlings Jean and Pat. Love, hugs and bisous.

Jean WM said...

We’ve had a rough week of suicides this week in the USA. If this makes life better for you for even a minute, go for it. Hugs and bisous.
Have a relaxing weekend.

T said...

Not sure really. The guy might have been more pissed over that the other guy stood there and watched and not so much that he was jerking off. Some people might be fine over nudity but any form of sexual activity and its the complete opposite.

We have had experiences with people like that before.

that one guy said...

It's his job to ensure his own privacy, not your job to stay out of your own living room. Common areas are exactly that: areas meant to be used in common. In the context of sharing a house, the living room is a public area. If you don't want to be seen doing something, don't do it in public.

I'm hoping he feels bad about yelling at you. Even if he doesn't quite get around to apologizing, hopefully he won't do it again (not sure if I mean jacking off in the living room, or yelling if caught).

If he stays mad about it, you could remind him (with gentle humor) whose couch he was on, and whose house it's situated in.

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Anonymous said...

We're quite open about nudity and masturbation in our house. Boners are to be expected, there's no need to hide them. But, my sons and I don't sprawl out in the family room and jerk off. Though, sometimes they do forget to shut the bedroom door when they're lost in their dicks. Of course, I don't stop and watch, either - I go on about my business. As they've mentioned here in comments, they've witnessed me stroking away, too, but not out in the open like this guy.
Seriously, his tenant owes HIM an apology. What did he expect if he's jerking off out in the open? I have a feeling his yelling was more out of embarrassment than anger.
They need to settle in and learn how to co-exist; stroking boners and all. - Dad

Greg said...

It's your house and you don't owe him an apology. If he didn't want to be caught whacking off, he should have done it in his bedroom.