"The first night of our honeymoon was a total disaster. I lost control before I could get the condom on and had to go into the bathroom to clean myself off. Got the nex tone on and slowly entered and promptly ejaculated again. I was so embarrassed and apologized and apologized and she kept telling me it was okay over and over again. We both fell asleep and I woke up so hard I couldn't believe it so we decided to try again. That time I managed to get in a decent amount of thrusting before my orgasm. But the thing that struck me funny was she asked if it was always big and stiff because after I took off the condom I was still as hard as when I woke up. Well, then she wanted to really inspect it because she'd never seen one. I helped her and I got the most wonderful hand job. Finally it went soft. We ran out of condoms by the third night and neither one of us was brave enough to buy more at the hotel gift shop. I thought it was the end of sex until we got back home. It turns out she's very adventurous and we did a lot of stuff I don't think we would've tried if there had been a good supply of condoms. turns out we both like me to slide my penis between her breasts and after a little bit of cajoling it turned out that she likes giving oral. With the privacy of our own place we decided to watch some porn and we've been doing whatever we see on the screen. It's really incredible. She likes your blog, too, by the way. She says now she's fascinated by "cock" and has been reading every post from the beginning. Anyway, thanks for "yanking my chain" to ask how things went. We're doing great and having a wonderful time and we have you and your readers to thank."
Don't worry so much about losing control of your ejaculation the first few times. It's normal. Very normal. I have to laugh that she asked if cocks are always hard because my first wife thought the same thing! Ah, youth. We men do seem to wander around with perpetual boners, don't we?
I applaud your initiative to watch porn to learn things. But please be cautious - a lot is not a good depiction of reality. Have fun with it. As Dan Savage says, be GGG: Good, giving, and game. But if one of you says it's not pleasurable, there can be no whining.
I'm glad everyone here was able to help. It does sound like you're doing well and having fun.
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relax and speak with your wife
Bravo for the adventurous spouse!
And that makes two of us being fascinated by 'cock'.
XOXO
What a great outcome....no pun intended.
Very nice post!
I had premature ejaculation for a couple of years. I tried gels, squeezing the glans when I got close, different forms of foreplay, nothing seemed to work. And I too apologized every time. I could tell she wasn't satisfied, but she said it was OK. It eventually normalized.
Things got way better after reading Male Sexuality way back in the 80's. I ended up masturbating for 45 minutes before I gave myself permission to shoot the wad. Holy fuck! Was that a great relief, and a big mess to clean up. But worth every second.
Glad to hear you both are open to exploring things, and watching things together. I could never get her to move on, everything had to be penis in vagina sex and it nearly rubbed me raw. For many years she wouldn't explore me using fingers or vibrators my dick had to do everything.
Glad I don't have to put up with that anymore. (That's another story.) :\
Congrats and job well done. (pun intended)
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