"I'm still a virgin though I do masturbate. I may have met a woman and it scares me to think I'd blast off the minute I pushed in. Any advice on how to avoid that?"
Minute Man Missile Syndrome is very common with the first time of penetrative sex. If it should happen to you, welcome to the club. You're in good company, as the saying goes.
Get a FleshJack or some other type of masturbation sleeve that you can thrust into. I'm going to suggest you get it to body temperature and use plenty of lubrication. Wedge it somewhere in such a way that you don't need to hold it in place and slide in.
If you're too embarrassed to go into a store to buy a sleeve or order one online for delivery, you can still practice by thrusting into your hand with plenty of lube. Find a chair or counter to keep your hand stationary.
This is not a guarantee you won't lose control the first time you actually have sex with a woman. That might depend on your level of arousal when things get started.
But it should lower the "first time sensation" issue.
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Good advice!!!!! And for heaven's sake WEAR A CONDOM...unless he wants a child!!
Hold down the fort Pat. I will see you some time in two weeks! Ill miss my daily spot visit...but if time permits...
Ohhh a virgin!
How quaint. And he should not worry. I have had men like him and I take it as a compliment that he comes fast the first time we have sex. They have usually let me know, though. He should tell whomever he's having sex with that he's VERY excited to fuck them, btw.
The idea of the fleshjack is fab. That kind of replicates the feeling of fucking quite well.
XOXO
Don't forget the condom, this too can have a delaying effect and it's reassuring....
In all because it is a moment that we will remember for the rest of our lives...
Jeff
Bordeaux (France)
Another idea is to jack off before a date if he thinks he's gonna get laid.
Well, the two best advices have now been given to you, young man.
Pat's, for exercising with a FleshJack (I know it's pumpkin season but forget about them, these are for early teens :-).
Add Rick's advice to wank prior to meeting that woman when you both know you'll conclude, because this will both spare you most of the nervousness and help your mind focus on her pleasure than on yours (yes, the best trick to reaching the best of climax is to make sure your partner reaches it too).
Wish you a plentiful of wonderful moments!
Your reader should just think about the moment when he will push out and not in, deflowered, balls empty, triumphantly.
Huhs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Have a great day.
I used to have the opposite type of first night nerves with a new partner and not be able to cum. Nobody gets it right first time, talk about it, if your partner doesn't understand you aren't in it for the long term.
If she's game, try oral first. Drop a load, then, go for vaginal.
My advice is so what. Sometimes it’s good to see how your partner reacts, there’s no right way, and here patience and communication pays off for both partners. What would he do if nothing he does brings an orgasm to the woman? Hugs and bisous.
how old is he?
Younger men generally have no problem achieving a happy ending for themselves but there can be an issue achieving it too quickly, so concentrate on assisting your partner to orgasm first, which doesn't have to involve the penis, and then explore your own happy ending when the performance pressure is off and it doesn't matter how long it takes.
Remember, women can have multiple orgasms, so its possible she might have another whilst you are having yours.
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