Good morning.
"Hello from Down Under! We go to the nude beach a lot and see men wandering around and their dicks standing up maybe not all the way but still. My boyfriend and his brother claim guys usually don't even notice. How can a guy not know he's got a stiffie?"
Let's start with the obvious. If the erection is sexually induced, oh, yeah, we know.
If it's not sexually induced, it's one of the numerous ones we get all the time.
The older we get the more we tend to ignore those. Unless it's snaking down a pantleg. We notice those because they're uncomfortable and we need to adjust.
The other reason we notice the morning boner is because we're waiting for it to go down so we can piss. Or trying to figure out how to piss with a hard-on (showers are the best remedy).
Otherwise, we don't notice them.
That's the honest truth.
13 comments:
How can we often go to the nudist beach and ask ourselves this question?
Bravo regarding the illustration.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Have a great day, that is on a nudist beach or not.
Kinda like that. Morning erection? Yeah, we know. One from an arousing image or someone playing with it? Hard not to know that one. If I'm wearing pants, I absolutely know because it's so uncomfortable.
But just one of many random erections and I'm naked? Yeah, there might be some fullness, but that's all.
And despite what some nudists think, no, perfect control is not possible.
Some are just chubs or soft-ons.
It depends if one wants to pee, too.
And I think that unless it is REALLY standing at attention, many men do not really notice...
XOXO
I love to notice mine all the time... :P Thanks for the lovely Wake Up graphic. Kizzes.
It’s nice for guys to tell others that this is all normal. Hugs and bisous.
I think we notice it, but if we change the subject, it starts to go down, if you think about it a lot, it lasts longer
Erections are natural for men, even at a nudist beach, for a variety of reasons. However, at a nudist beach they would largely be ignored, because they know they are natural and common and don't care, unless the context is sexual of course.
It's not that guys don't notice they have an erection, they have learned not to care at places that no-one cares, such as nudist beaches. Guys are usually very apprehensive initially about getting an erection at naturist sites, until they are reassured it is natural and doesn't matter: this is because of the ridiculous societal expectation that men should only get erections in private sexual encounters, when they occur for a variety of natural reasons in all kinds of public and private situations outside a man's control. Shaming men for natural erections is one of those horrible persistent social disgraces, that would be as bad as shaming women for menstruation.
The blog question that has been posed suggests surprise that guys may have full or partial erections at a nude beach and that they aren't attending to this because they don't realise. It reeks of naivity about men's bodies and an expectation they shouldn't have them even at a nude beach where they are visible, when the reality is that men have full or partial erections in all kinds of situations, not necessarily for sexual reasons and it's no-one elses business except the guys themselves.
Guys are always aware of the state of their "package" because it is at the heart of their identity. If they were permitted, they would revel in it. Women don't understand because they are not men and not pushed by testosterone, just as men don't really understand women (particularly "its not about the nail") because of the radical differences.
At my age I notice every one and celebrate it! I do get semi's at the gay swimming hole if I'm reading a stimulating part of a gay romance or notice a nice boner walking around. We're supposed to "find a tree" in that condition and as a result I spend time up in the woods above the gay beach
And for some of us, the open air or cold water shrinks up your balls which pushes your dick up and out making it appear like you're partially erect.
honestly, I get an uncontrolled erection if I have erotic dreams (not fantasies)!
I know the look when you mentally tell yourself please don't get any bigger
I am always aware of the hardness/semi-hardness of my package.
When I am sporting a full hard-on, I certainly know. But even some swelling I realize instantly and I like it very much.
I often fondle my cock and balls and I think my cock eagerly awaits that grabbing.
So almost everytime I have to piss, my dick swells with anticipation, long before I even decide to take a leak, find an appropriate place, open my fly and whip my package out. A friend said he could see how much I had to pee by the stiffness of my pisser in my jeans.
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