Tuesday, November 11, 2025

Too Big?

 

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"Influencer Haley Baylee recently stated that the large penis size of her ex-husband, former NFL player Matt Kalil, was a major factor in their divorce. Baylee, who was married to Kalil from 2015 to 2022, revealed this during a recent livestream, explaining that they tried to make it work but it became physically impossible. She clarified that the divorce was amicable and they remain friends, though her comments have sparked widespread media attention. 

So much of gay porn and gay sex is predicated on the idea of a huge dick. It can't be too big. But can it? Is it different for gay men? If you are a gay man and have a three beer can dick (like she described his) have you resolved yourself to the bottom in the relationship? We have all met guys and at one point said, "I ain't taking that." but I am curious if any of your readers have also been in relationships that didn't work and the only reason was the enormous size of their partner's penis. "






I know that everything porn is geared toward doing whatever it takes to make the cock look as big as possible - that goes for straight porn, too. But is a very large one a problem in a relationship? I know it was for my brother. Numerous women turned him away. He eventually found one who wasn't afraid of it.




So, can my gay readers help us out here? Is a huge cock a problem?

26 comments:

Hooter from Owls Rest said...

Would not think it would be a problem because we would probably have tried it out before we got married. We tend to test drive before we buy.

nakedswimmer said...

Well, since I don't do anal, I can't say size is an issue.

Anonymous said...

As a bi man with an 11” fat penis is rarely pleasant to receive oral sex. Most people tell me that they know how. Only two men have ever been present at it and none of the women ever were. Teeth are always an issue. I enjoy a nice manbutt. Vaginal sex was never very enough.

Sixpence Notthewiser said...

I lived with a dude with a nine+ incher. Thick.
It was a struggle sometimes. Not EVERYTHING goes as well as in Tim Tales, babes. Especially if the man could not keep his hands off me and wanted sex VERY often. So yes, sometimes big can be too big.
Glad your brother found his better half.

XOXO

Butch 57 said...

Hi, I feel that women do have issues with large cocks. Their vagina has trouble with a man's cock longer that 7 inches and the girth of over roughly 5 1/2 inches. just the nature of the human body. i have a 6 inches and I would hit bottom with my wife occasionally. I feel large cocked men seek our other men at time to get full pleasure out of this size. Just my humble feels.

PaulMmn said...

I met a guy who had a large one... Oral was a dream, if you only want a couple of inches before you get stuck.
Anal was beyond my capabilities at the time-- I hadn't learned how to relax, and it just didn't work (although we tried diligently and eagerly).
Since then, I've learned to relax, and I'd like another try! But I've lost touch with him. ):
I have practiced with assorted objects-- a baseball bat isn't that fat (you don't have to take the whole length). And assorted dildos.
I need to find a willing 'large one' to try again!
--PaulMmn

SickoRicko said...

I've been with only one man where that was a problem.

Anonymous said...

What can I say....
What's the size of your brother????
Please?!?!?!?! 😋🤤

CAAZ said...

If its too huge, I really cannot do anything with it. While size does matter, it does not have to be huge. Size is not the only thing, how you use it, goes a long way.

Anonymous said...

The bigger the better up to a point. The membranes of an asshole or vajayjay can only take so much until they’re torn. Bloody mess and infection, no thanx !
-CA jock

Jean said...

I’ve never quite understood the thinking, that passage in a woman is large enough for an 8 pound baby to come through. Anything bigger than that might be a problem. Hugs and bisous.

Mistress Maddie said...

Frist off...Happy Veterans Day and thank you for all you did to protect the country Pat. XOXO

As for huge cocks. I have had them. You have to have a patient partner to work with you. I do like to suck and play with a big cock ,lick and stroke it...but I most times prefer a normal size between 5-7". That will get the itch just fine.

Anonymous said...

Yes, of course a dick can be too big! It’s all a matter of preference and what feels good where. Not everyone is a size queen.

whkattk said...

We do like to do that, don't we?

whkattk said...

You are not alone in that.

whkattk said...

My brother's experience matches yours.

whkattk said...

It took him a lot of attempts.
XOXO

whkattk said...

I've had that issue with women, as well...hitting bottom and causing pain and internal bruising.

whkattk said...

I'm sure it's out there, somewhere.

whkattk said...

Men with cocks overly huge are rare, I think.

whkattk said...

10+"

whkattk said...

Yep.

whkattk said...

True....

whkattk said...

It's only a problem for length.... One woman (long-term relationship) had issues with me hitting the cervix and bruising if I thrust too deep.
Hugs and bisous.

whkattk said...

Aw, thanks, Mads.

I do think overly large can be an issue.

whkattk said...

And not everyone can accommodate overly large ones.