Too Big?

 

Good morning

Happy Veteran's Day. Not to be confused with Memorial Day. Go celebrate them.

Acknowledge them --- their time, their effort.

"Influencer Haley Baylee recently stated that the large penis size of her ex-husband, former NFL player Matt Kalil, was a major factor in their divorce. Baylee, who was married to Kalil from 2015 to 2022, revealed this during a recent livestream, explaining that they tried to make it work but it became physically impossible. She clarified that the divorce was amicable and they remain friends, though her comments have sparked widespread media attention. 

So much of gay porn and gay sex is predicated on the idea of a huge dick. It can't be too big. But can it? Is it different for gay men? If you are a gay man and have a three beer can dick (like she described his) have you resolved yourself to the bottom in the relationship? We have all met guys and at one point said, "I ain't taking that." but I am curious if any of your readers have also been in relationships that didn't work and the only reason was the enormous size of their partner's penis. "

I know that everything porn is geared toward doing whatever it takes to make the cock look as big as possible - that goes for straight porn, too. But is a very large one a problem in a relationship? I know it was for my brother. Numerous women turned him away. He eventually found one who wasn't afraid of it.

So, can my gay readers help us out here? Is a huge cock a problem?

His Own Time

Happy Veteran's Day to all my U.S. vet readers.

"My husband and I both read your blog everyday. After my husband attended a men's seminar, he's been obssessed with teaching other men to be comfortable in their own skin. We have a 2 car garage in the back yard that he renovated with full bathroom, & kitchenette & a big tv. Every Saturday is something different when he teaches naked yoga, group massage, and masturbation. Last week a woman came looking for her husband. She was sure he was having an affair and was surprised when I answered the door and told her he was out back with the rest of the guys. It happened to be yoga day and I refused to tell her or allow her back there knowing all the guys were naked. My husband said I should've told her that it's part of losing the shame of being male. I think it's her husband's place to fill her in, not mine. What say you?"

It sounds to me like your husband must have attended a Body Electric seminar. They're wonderful. I attended one and found it absolutely life-changing. Though I was already comfortable being naked around other men and jacking off around them too because of my years in the military, this seminar brought something higher: A sense of brotherhood, because of the way they teach the classes.

First to be comfortable in the nude.

Then comfortable that all men get erections and there's no reason to be ashamed of that.

And that all men masturbate and jacking off is nothing to be ashamed of.

Then learning to communicate about what you like with a partner through erotic massage.

And then how to become multi-orgasmic.

It turned the military circle jerks I remembered into a true comradery of shared senses.

 To answer your question, I side with you. Though being proud of his body and learning more about the pleasure in how it functions is part of the process, your husband's student needs to share that with his wife in his own time, when he's fully comfortable with it.

Readers, what do you think?

Veteran's Day

 

Today is Remembrance Day, commonly referred to as Veteran's Day. 

We show our respect to those who served, or are currently serving, in the United States Armed Forces. They have served so that I can have and post to this blog, so that you can surf the internet to read it. They served for the greater good. That's a sense we seem to be rapidly losing.

Take a moment.

Thank them for their service.

And, as the inscription says: Never Forget.

Veteran's Day

 

Today is Veteran's Day in the United States.

We celebrate those who have served.

And, believe me, it is not always an easy life.

We celebrate those who are serving. They sacrifice so much so the rest of us can go on with our lives without too much concern.

We often get complacent.

But we should always be looking over our shoulders.

And that is what our military does for us.

Veteran's Day is November 11. Why this particular day? Because World War I - the war to end all wars (we should've been so lucky!) - officially ended on November 11, at 11:00PM: 11-11 at 11pm.

Please, if you see a Veteran, if you know a Veteran, let them know you appreciate what they've done, what they've gone through, what they've sacrificed.

It is appropriate to say,

"Thank you for your service."

but also say,

"Never forget."