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Happy Veteran's Day. Not to be confused with Memorial Day. Go celebrate them.
"Influencer Haley Baylee recently stated that the large penis size of her ex-husband, former NFL player Matt Kalil, was a major factor in their divorce. Baylee, who was married to Kalil from 2015 to 2022, revealed this during a recent livestream, explaining that they tried to make it work but it became physically impossible. She clarified that the divorce was amicable and they remain friends, though her comments have sparked widespread media attention.
So much of gay porn and gay sex is predicated on the idea of a huge dick. It can't be too big. But can it? Is it different for gay men? If you are a gay man and have a three beer can dick (like she described his) have you resolved yourself to the bottom in the relationship? We have all met guys and at one point said, "I ain't taking that." but I am curious if any of your readers have also been in relationships that didn't work and the only reason was the enormous size of their partner's penis. "
I know that everything porn is geared toward doing whatever it takes to make the cock look as big as possible - that goes for straight porn, too. But is a very large one a problem in a relationship? I know it was for my brother. Numerous women turned him away. He eventually found one who wasn't afraid of it.
So, can my gay readers help us out here? Is a huge cock a problem?
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Would not think it would be a problem because we would probably have tried it out before we got married. We tend to test drive before we buy.
Well, since I don't do anal, I can't say size is an issue.
As a bi man with an 11” fat penis is rarely pleasant to receive oral sex. Most people tell me that they know how. Only two men have ever been present at it and none of the women ever were. Teeth are always an issue. I enjoy a nice manbutt. Vaginal sex was never very enough.
I lived with a dude with a nine+ incher. Thick.
It was a struggle sometimes. Not EVERYTHING goes as well as in Tim Tales, babes. Especially if the man could not keep his hands off me and wanted sex VERY often. So yes, sometimes big can be too big.
Glad your brother found his better half.
XOXO
Hi, I feel that women do have issues with large cocks. Their vagina has trouble with a man's cock longer that 7 inches and the girth of over roughly 5 1/2 inches. just the nature of the human body. i have a 6 inches and I would hit bottom with my wife occasionally. I feel large cocked men seek our other men at time to get full pleasure out of this size. Just my humble feels.
I met a guy who had a large one... Oral was a dream, if you only want a couple of inches before you get stuck.
Anal was beyond my capabilities at the time-- I hadn't learned how to relax, and it just didn't work (although we tried diligently and eagerly).
Since then, I've learned to relax, and I'd like another try! But I've lost touch with him. ):
I have practiced with assorted objects-- a baseball bat isn't that fat (you don't have to take the whole length). And assorted dildos.
I need to find a willing 'large one' to try again!
--PaulMmn
I've been with only one man where that was a problem.
What can I say....
What's the size of your brother????
Please?!?!?!?! 😋🤤
If its too huge, I really cannot do anything with it. While size does matter, it does not have to be huge. Size is not the only thing, how you use it, goes a long way.
The bigger the better up to a point. The membranes of an asshole or vajayjay can only take so much until they’re torn. Bloody mess and infection, no thanx !
-CA jock
I’ve never quite understood the thinking, that passage in a woman is large enough for an 8 pound baby to come through. Anything bigger than that might be a problem. Hugs and bisous.
Frist off...Happy Veterans Day and thank you for all you did to protect the country Pat. XOXO
As for huge cocks. I have had them. You have to have a patient partner to work with you. I do like to suck and play with a big cock ,lick and stroke it...but I most times prefer a normal size between 5-7". That will get the itch just fine.
Yes, of course a dick can be too big! It’s all a matter of preference and what feels good where. Not everyone is a size queen.
And happy (day after) Veteran's Day. I DID put our Donald Trump Sex Doll (US flag) up on the pole for the day.
I have had the opportunity many... many... many years ago to routinely play with a large cock (friend with benefits). HUGE penis - 10"... but alas, he was a total bottom.
Husband is gifted, but his idea of anal is what you see in porn - spit and shove with no foreplay. I think I took him once. He likes things vocal, but my screaming in agony was probably not what he was thinking about...
We do like to do that, don't we?
You are not alone in that.
My brother's experience matches yours.
It took him a lot of attempts.
XOXO
I've had that issue with women, as well...hitting bottom and causing pain and internal bruising.
I'm sure it's out there, somewhere.
Men with cocks overly huge are rare, I think.
10+"
Yep.
True....
It's only a problem for length.... One woman (long-term relationship) had issues with me hitting the cervix and bruising if I thrust too deep.
Hugs and bisous.
Aw, thanks, Mads.
I do think overly large can be an issue.
And not everyone can accommodate overly large ones.
Yeah, I'm actually just a hair over 10½", so, like, with women, I have to at least initially try positions where she does all the work. Oral is possible, though not straight up deepthroating.
With men, as I said, I don't do anal. I'm more into mutual jackoff (so, no real need to worry about size, though the bigger guys at the JO club do sometimes put on a show), frot (the ideal for frot is two dicks of roughly equal size), docking (so the size of my foreskin matters), and interfemoral (size doesn't matter).
A lot of bi frot guys are into double penetration, but it's really impossible for me.
I imagine that with anal, small would be better.
I'm not worried about that. Small dick from dad to son.
My experiences with guys having BIG ones (whether it's GIRTH and/or LENGTH), is that ~75% were mostly bottoms. The rest were Macho/Alphas that INSISTED they would "NEVER be a [lowly] bottom!" (this ended any attraction IMMEDIATLY)
Length shouldn't be an issue either, it's what you do with the equipment that matters. A simple cushioned cuff would likely not only solve the length issue but would also better stimulate the clitoris at the same time, whilst not being a permanent change.
However, unless you are used to shitting beer cans, the anus isn't designed for large objects, although it can be trained to accommodate larger with careful dilation and practice, else fisting wouldn't be a thing.
Porn does a disservice to anal sex, because it never shows the careful dilation needed to accompany large objects in comfort: ramming it in the first time does not usually end well as it does in porn.
Matt Kalil: American former american football "offensive tackle".
I wonder if women don't want to even try larger tackle, because they don't want to be slack for the next man they have sex with after they have dumped the current one.
I'm the one with the pretty large cock, about 80th percentile in thickness, too thick for my first gay partner and, I thought for a long time, too big for anyone. Eventually I bought a my-size dildo and found it wasn't too big for me. By that time I also had found that I loved to bottom, and that's been my preference for about 50 years. Did that early experience shape my erotic life?
I would imagine that to be true. Large enough to engage the prostate should be sufficient.
Spit and shove is never a good idea in any sexual situation: porn has a lot to answer for in not being educational as well as erotic, however government has even more to answer for, in not providing that educational erotica openly but instead suppressing it and leaving it to dodgy underground production without standards or considering consequences.
Forget to comment on oral sex... I've only ever had half a dozen of amazing blow jobs where guys took all of my cock, including my very first sex with another man, which left me tingling for days - 50 years ago! I put this as a big negative. The positive is that when I show my hard cock I get a lot of attention!
I have only had experience with one 26cm penis. He was a total top, and refused to bottom, but he also did not do much else other than think you have to please him because he has a big dick... it was mostly oral and handjobs, and let me tell you.it did excite me to play with his large penis. I ended up bottoming once for him, and it did not hurt, but the only fun was in the idea of taking a big dick. He did not get me to orgasm, and he did not give proper bj's
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