Be Cautious

An horrific record-breaking heatwave is settling over all of Europe - for the second time in several weeks. I hope all of my readers there will stay safe and find a way to stay cool.

The threatened rains and winds never showed here. Just clouds passing overhead, but it kept the temperatures down to a mere 103F. The pool stayed swim-able, so I spent my time lounging again.

A reader asked about cock rings - metal ones in particular. They are lovely as adornment, unless they also encircle the balls. To avoid permanent injury, cock-only ones should never be used with an erection for longer than 30 minutes.

Another reader asked about generic for Cialis. Yes, generics are available now. That is why internet companies like HIMS are advertising Sildenafil at $30.00 US. Is that cheaper than the brand names (Viagra, Cialis, Levitra)? I'm not sure, but it might be worth looking into because their Cialis generic is offered at $240.00 US.

Though, I must - again - add a cautionary warning about using these drugs if you don't really need them. Our boners vary in strength. Some days we may be hard as nails, the next day not so much but still hard enough for penetrative activities.

These are your cocks, guys. You only get one. We all want to enjoy them as much as we possibly can, but we want to enjoy them as far into life as we can, too. Keep your cock healthy.

Enjoy it but

be cautious.

Cock Jewelry

"My wife noticed me slipping on a cock ring before getting dressed. Now she's accusing me of fucking around on her. I tried to tell her it's because I freeball and it gives my junk a forward lift keeping it out from between my legs. I'll admit I enjoy the looks I get from the bulge and some of the looks and comments at the gym. What can I do to convince her the cock ring isn't for holding a boner?"

First and foremost: Please don't refer to your genitals as 'junk.' Junk is something we no longer want. Junk is something we discard. Your cock and balls should be something you cherish. If you don't cherish yours, we need to have a talk.

That said, I assume the type of cock ring you use encircles the entire package. Your reasoning makes sense to me. A wide-band ring will lift everything and push it forward at the same time, so it serves a purpose other than helping maintain a hard-on.

There are all kinds of jewelry items men wear on their cocks; Prince Alberts, shaft and scrotal bar and ring piercings, a variety of cock rings are designed just for adornment. And guys get and wear these things because they like the way they look.

How do you convince her the cock ring isn't for assisting with rigidity? Not sure I have an answer for that. Do you use one during sex?

If so, that could be a signal to her that you're getting laid somewhere besides at home with her.

Any suggestions for him Readers?

Guys, do you have and wear any cock jewelry?

Don't Lose the Key!

We've talked about cock rings several times - and warned of the type which can be dangerous if worn too long because they cut off the natural ebb and flow of the blood to the boner.

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But, here's something I hadn't thought of: Male Chastity Belts or, as they are sometimes called, Cock Cages. Physicians, psychologists, and religious leaders used to prescribe chastity belts for young men going through puberty thinking it would put a halt to those "evil nocturnal emissions."

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Today's cages are intended as sex toys; mainly within the BDSM community. But there are some couples who just like to play a bit. 

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 It's fun for women to think they've got total control over their man's boner at least once in a while.

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There can be problems with any sex toy not used properly. If you get and use a full-coverage one, make sure there is at least a provision to take a whizz. Particularly if your scenario includes all-day wear. 

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And, I would really recommend that there be some room for expansion. Because those BOE boners can become very uncomfortable if they can't be adjusted.

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And, yes, the cock should naturally deflate if faced with an impediment.

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But, you know, there are just some boners that don't quit.

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They're persistent to the point that the only way they'll subside is after an ejaculation.

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And, for cryin' out loud! don't lose the key! Yes, I'm sure the doctors and nurses in Emergency Rooms have seen all kinds of things (ever watch the TV show Sex Sent Me to the ER?) but, really folks, the hospital staff may not laugh in your presence, but they will laugh. Long and loud.

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I will be gone until Sunday. But I have scheduled posts for Thursday and Friday. Have a terrific weekend. And don't forget Sunday is May 1. And, if you've been reading here for a long while, you know what that means.

Rings for Your...

We all know how a cock ring can enhance our experience; making our cocks harder and keep them that way for a longer period of time... But have you tried a ring for your Thumb?

That pic I posted yesterday (and repeated today for this post) reminded me about the real use of thumb rings. They aren't just for decoration... Not for us guys anyway.

It was several years ago that my brother-in-law and his family were over for a bbq and swim. He had a thumb ring on and I asked him why he wore it. He answered without hesitation, "I just like the way it looks." But there was a quirky smile on his face. Later on, while we were in the pool he asked me if I wanted to know the real reason he had it. Well, duh!!

"It feels so fuckin' good on the head of my cock when I jack off. It bumps over the ridge in both directions and adds a lot to the stimulation. You should get one."

Well, I didn't think too much about it - though the idea intrigued me. Two months later, for my birthday, my wife gave me a thumb ring. And I tried it. And I liked it. I mean, I really liked it! I don't utilize it every time I whack off, but I sure enjoy it when I do. It's amazing that it's positioned perfectly to rub against the cockhead and that little "pop" over the ridge is exquisite! Get one and give it a try when you next spend time on yourself...

Rings: They aren't just for your cock anymore. Oh, wait... Yes, they are for your cock!

And, it could add quite a bit of pop to your 'parting shot'!