Monday, November 30, 2015

A Late Start

Thanksgiving Day was quiet, and there was no Turkey on our table, so that was perfect for my tastes. There were no forays out to the stores on Black Friday - my poor old gimpy body cannot handle the pushy crowds so it's safer for me to stay home.
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Some chores got done. The Christmas decorations all got put up a little at a time.
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I did a little baking and, because the weather has been 9 degrees below normal, we made a lovely Italian Sausage and Kale soup to help warm us up.
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It was a nice, relaxing weekend, though.
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I'd thought today's post would begin a series on Tantric practices, but this late start now postpones that. Though I trust you are not disappointed in the results.

Thursday, November 26, 2015

Don't Burn Your Goodies

Today, in the US, it is Thanksgiving...the day we offer thanks for those things we appreciate. For some, it is friends and family, good health, having the financial means to provide the fundamental needs of life. May you all have a wonderful day.
I hope you aren't trussed up like a turkey unless, of course, you want to be
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 May delicious things come from the kitchen
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 If you're like me and love to be naked as much as possible, even when doing the cooking
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 Wear an apron at the stove - we don't want your goodies to get burned
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  when the celebration is over, and the kitchen is all clean, go ahead - indulge yourself


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You deserve it!

I'm going to take tomorrow off, but I've scheduled a little inspirational treat. Have a terrific weekend!

Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Get the Most Enjoyment

As Faithful reader Jean points out, we now have the internet and young men can learn a lot, yet there are a lot of inaccuracies. For anyone who may have the need to steer a young man toward places on the web to learn the mechanics of masturbation, one of the best places to start is JackinWorld. It is geared specifically toward guys at that stage of discovery (they also have pages for girls).
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There are also many videos available for males. Maximum Orgasm and Evolutionary Masturbation; an Intimate Guide to Male Orgasm are good for learning to extend the pleasure.

For the mechanics of it, to enforce the idea that jacking off is a common activity for males, Ron Lloyd's Body Solo series of 10 dvds is ideal. All of those are on a shelf in my library.
His new series, Legend Men, is just as good and you can stream them if you'd prefer not to have them shipped to your house.
I also own books on the male body and sexual response. Tomes such as Total Massage, Sex: A Man's Guide, The Intimate Male, and The Sexual Self (among others) have taught me quite a bit. I think in order to get full enjoyment - whether engaged in masturbation or with a partner - one must have a good knowledge of their own body, how it functions, and why.
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Yes, there is information galore out on the web, but as Faithful reader Fullmoonma, blogger at how2bate, points out, there is nothing like hands-on instruction. There are classes, retreats, and seminars which take place all over the country where we can learn to shed our embarrassment over our genitals
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be comfortable with our bodies,
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particularly in the company or view of others
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and learn to accept the natural physiological responses.
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to get the most enjoyment.