Lots of advice for the reader regarding the latest ED treatment. I have not had a chance to do any research as yet, but I will. In the meantime...
"I live in the college dorms and have a roommate who is always naked. He strips the minute he walks in the door and stays that way until he leaves for somewhere. He doesn't even pull on shorts when someone stops in. He also jerks off every night in his bed. I've asked him to at least pull on pants when other people show up. And I've told him I don't like having to watch him jerk off. And he drops the towels full of cum on the floor where they stay and pile up until he does laundry. This has been constant tension between us. What can I do to get him to accommodate my requests?"
Well, now. Two issues but the answers are not simple. The thing is, you both have to learn to accommodate each other. That's what dorm life is all about. To keep the peace, you each must be willing to compromise. I see nothing wrong with being nude - I'm a nudist myself and can appreciate his lifestyle.
Roommates, especially, should be able to be naked. Remember, he lives there, too.
But... There is this thing called consideration. He needs to be considerate of guests - not everyone is comfortable around naked bodies. So, he should, at the very least, put on something when guests show up at your door. If not pants, at least a pair of briefs.
As for the masturbation.... Well, now, you jack off, too, don't you? Lights off, stroking under the covers, or trying to be as unobtrusive as possible. Or, maybe you take care of business when he's not around?
Or, maybe you hide in the shower.
Which, I have to say with a roommate like yours there's no real reason except being embarrassed about it. Either way, this is one where I think I'll have to side with him. Consideration for one another is one thing - asking a guy to stop charming his snake is another. Good lord, dude. Jacking off is the most common form of sexual release for guys. As a good friend once told my wife, "Guys jerk off. It's a fact of life. Get over yourself."
Nobody says you have to watch. Bury your nose in a book, or watch something on your tablet (or whatever device you use). Or face the other direction.
However, I'm with you on the cum rags. He should put them in a hamper with the rest of his laundry. Leaving cum-drenched anything lying around isn't a badge of honor, declaring "Yes, I jack off." Rather, it's announcing you're a slob.
Anyone else care to offer solutions?
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In my opinion, the jerker is being a jerk.
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I would ask why this guy is so upset by nudity and masterbation? Geez, drop Trou and relax. Obviously the naked roommate is pushing his buttons, but seriously if you matched him it may take the wind out of his sails and or you’ll become more comfortable with yourself. And if you don’t get naked fine. Just learn to accept him as he is. When I was in college one of our friends always always the “naked guy”. On more than one occasion if Mikey showed up at parties clothed, he was told by all of to take those rags off and he did. He wore his nudity proudly. I would ask him tho to throw the laundry in the hamper.
may he could sell tickets to visitors?
I can see both sides. I wouldn't mind being nude or having a nude room mate, but like you said there has to be some consideration. If the emailer is too uncomfortable at the end, he might want to request a change to someone to fit his style more for dorm living. The other room mate should also understand when guests come over, he should at least put pants on.
NO EXCUSES ON THE CUMS RAGS!!!!! That's just plain lazy and piggish.
If that perturbs your reader, he has to find and to make something which is even more stressful for his roommate. It is only then that he will be able to negotiate something in a win-win agreement with this rough boor, this trouble maker who is maybe stupid enough to think that your reader will be seduced by his bad-mannered behaviors and will share them with him.
Consideration for one another is one thing that implies that he can be charming his snake or be doing whatever else but only by making sure that nobody notices it. Especially knowing that it is unpleasant to your reader.
Unless this latter is less sincere than he seems to be and is hoping only for your green light for making the same things than his roommate.
Love, hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat who have all my consideration.
Geez, the roomate sounds like he has intelligence but no social intelligence.
Don't eat all your Halloween candy! That's why I wait to buy i! Hugs and bisous.
I can undestand the problem of this guy, but this case is so sexy and erotic!!!
Leave. Its that simple. Once being mature about things fails and things are still the way they are its time to go. You will both find people better suited to each of your needs.
he should use deposable tissue to wipe up his mess.
he should use disposable tissues to clean up his mess I do
@ Anon - I have a feeling the floor would then be littered with used tissue. The key is to properly pick up after himself.
@ Jean - Yep. Brains but no social skills.... The brain may be in his crotch.
To be naked at home and to masturbate always is natural. But living together with a roommate both need thoughtfulness and empathy for the proper handling of nudity and sex.
I've rebloged this post on my blog RSM to inspire the visitors: https://real-sex-mainstream.blogspot.de/2017/10/dorm-life-repost-from-bigwhackattack.html
@ imagination - I agree...and agree with French Patrick. It needs to be handled with consideration and we hope the roommate is doing it for comfort, not in an exhibitionistic manner.
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