Tuesday, November 14, 2017

Out of Bounds

Speaking of boundaries. Dear Abby gets a letter from a woman complaining that her son-in-law stays in his underwear when she visits. She thinks he should put on pants, and has trouble that he stays in his skivvies around his children (her grandchildren).




 Well, now. Abby and I agree he can live the way he wishes in his own house.
There are people who raise their families in the nudist lifestyle; naked around the house is natural, normal. They want to promote the idea that there is no shame of the human body.

So, here's my question: Does the writer have the same reaction to swim trunks? They have the same anatomical coverage as underwear.


I have boxers and lounge shorts I put on if someone comes to the door, or when I need to go out front for some reason. Truly, if you don't know any better, you'd think I had on a swim suit. My wife used to complain, I told her the only one who knows I'm in "underwear" is her.



What do you think?
Is the son-in-law out of bounds?

12 comments:

mistress maddie said...

The writer is probably a prude and has issues of there own with nudity and body imaage.

Xersex said...

I can not see a lot of the guys in this pics are horny!

SickoRicko said...

I think he should at least put on shorts when she comes over.

A French Patrick said...

He is out bounds in the mind of the woman who complains and he is not out bounds in the mind of those who don't complain.
Where are these imaginary lines that are the bounds and the frontiers, which are just as the horizon, line which not only is imaginary but which besides moves back as we move forward.
She is too old to understand that the truths of yesterday are not any more the ones of today, and she doesnt want to move forward in her prejudices by thinking that they are veridic?
He doesn't want to move back in his conception of life by thinking that they are very dick?
OK, it is enough that she invites them at her own home instead of visiting them. There, she will have the right to impose her old-fashioned prejudices.
It's a lot of fuss for nothing. The prejudices of everyone at their places, and the cows will be well taken care of!

Love, hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.

Gabriel said...

I think he is the king of his castle and should go around his place the way he feels comfortable. He is not naked. He is covered. I say he is fine.

Anonymous said...

As long as it is covered what makes the difference?

AOM said...

That's bullshit! The lady is the one with the problem - not the dude in his undies - and you are right - swimwear is just as or even more of an "exposure". I suppose that if it doesn't really matter to the son-in-law, he could put on shorts just to be kind to her but her attitude is one of the reasons we have so many screwed up people being taught by a culture that deems the human body as bad. People really need to get over it and accept the body as a reality. I hope you have a great day,brother. I wish you a bonerific NAKED around the house day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

Fullmoonma said...

Myself, I find it reassuring that men have penises and seeing a bulge helps. Naked is better - one reason I love the gay swimming hole I go to. We're naked most of the time when at our country house, but when the (gay) neighbors come to chat I usually will put on some sort of undergarment if one is convenient because they seem to be more comfortable, and a host should seek to please his guests. That would be my advice for the son-in-law.

Anonymous said...

In her own place? Sure. Elsewhere? No.

Anonymous said...

The Son-in-Law is NOT out of bounds! I do the same thing – why go into confinement (you know where) just for someone’s delicate sensibilities…. Tell them to go naked themselves when at home…. They might like it - 😉 Not only is it liberating, it is many times erotic to feel Ole’ Smokey swinging… 😉 - Glenn

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Guy from the photo #3...
And the daddy in the last pic!

YES!!! ^_^

Anonymous said...

I don't see any big deal.. But he should start wearing those basketball type shorts.. many men all wear those type of shorts. (And wearing no underwear). Yesterday I went to a college football game and many guys wore these shorts and all their stuff was swinging back-and-forth as they walked.. Pretty amazing to view. Some looked like they were sporting semis.