Anticipating that the function would run quite late last night, this is a scheduled post.
Before I logged off Dad popped in a comment on the post that bears repeating: "More women need to understand this. Maybe guys need to be more communicative."
Guys, stop being so afraid to talk to your wives/girlfriends/partners/significant others when it comes to sex. Sex and money are the leaders in the cause for divorce. The more open you are about your likes, desires, and fantasies the better off you're going to be. "Happy wife, happy life" is great in theory, but you have the same right to happiness. If that means you want to be able to head off for a bit of "me time" the better she understands that the easier it will be.
Come on, guys, man up. It will stop you from having to hide in the garage or bathroom.
Or stroking one out in the shower as if you were back at home with the parents.
You're a grown-up, a man. You can jack off if you want to.
7 comments:
for a lot of women it's to difficult to understand the huge need of sex of men.
AMEN! Great comment and absolutely true. Men have to be more open - it is the way to freedom and better communications and better more fulfilling relationships. Wishing you all the very best, my Friend. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
It's startling how many women have absolutely no understanding of the male sex drive. One woman at work was saying how annoyed she is with her husband because he still wants to have sex even though they already have the child she wanted. One night she told him it was time for him to grow up and stop wanting sex like a teenager, she said there are more important things he could be doing with his time now that they have a child, house and mortgage. I can't tell you how sorry I feel for that guy!
Great advice as always! But this can also happen between gay partners. It's easy to say, "I'm going to jack off! Want to watch/join me?"
Right. I’d love to listen to some of those explanations, and then the reactions. Don’t forget this is like apples talking to tomatoes.
Hugs and Bisous!
@ Jean - Yes, we do seem to speak in foreign languages don't we? Men don't understand so many things about you women. We eventually learn to shrug our shoulders and say, "Okay." LOL. I'll bet many women do the same thing. Certainly that is the case with a long, long marriage. :-)
What a terrific post!
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